Why only women?
Why is it that most men don't want to do household chores? Society has taught women to step out and earn, but hasn't taught men to contribute equally at home. Why? Many men say, "It's not my work, it's your work." But when it comes to finances, they expect women to contribute. This double standard is frustrating.
What’s surprising is that many mothers don’t teach their sons that household responsibilities should be shared equally. It’s such a basic life skill. In my point of view, a relationship works best when both partners contribute equally — emotionally, financially, and with household responsibilities.Men should support their wives at home, and women can support their partners financially if needed. That’s how a balanced and respectful relationship works in today's time.
Honestly, I never understood how hard household work is — I never appreciated it when my mother did everything. But after getting married, I realized how much effort it really takes. And all the mothers should teach their children to contribute in house hold from their young age. So that they can get to know how hard it is. And so that they can respect. I truly salute all housewives who manage the home, and even more to those who manage both a career and a household.
Yes, there are men who do help at home and work alongside their wives, and I respect that. But still, the common mindset is: "When she's there, why should I work?" That needs to be changed. Thanks. All thoughts are welcomed.
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We are in an era where men are just clowns, they do not want any responsibility, neither they want to support their parents nor the wife They just need a financial support and what they bring into the woman's life is nothing.
I believe that if both partners are earning, then both should contribute equally in household chores. This comes with a condition that if one person's job is more demanding (physically or mentally) then other person needs to step up and support.
Men and women who don't know basic household work are such a turn off in today's time
This is a very sad reality in today's world. And not just in India, these things happen in other countries as well, even in the first-world countries (might be on a very low scale). I also believe that good people do exist and you should be really very careful before choosing a life partner.
Men definitely need to think on these lines and try to break these patterns. Women also need to set boundaries and make themselves heard, otherwise nobody would listen. Internalized misogyny in women is also to be blamed, along with patriarchy.
Also, I think people should try to break themselves free from such things if no solution works. It is a little difficult, I know. And if someone is not able to do so, at least don't inculcate these nonsense values in your children. Otherwise, these issues will go on and on for the next generations and there will be no end. Both the partners should contribute to the marriage.
Looks like someone is making someone do all the work.. 😮
Lol...