where/ how to find a life partner
26F, where and how do i find a life partner. Dating apps are boring and i don’t know if people are serious there while matrimony apps sucks with uncles.
gp do your magic and land me at the right place!
You are on the wrong platform. You aren't getting anyone serious here either. And should not have mentioned being an F.
It's all boring if you don't have an intellectual match on both sides. Dating apps are too shallow and one-sided effort it's so hilarious. Plus if you have high TC early in the career then it is fucking isolating as you have nobody to talk about it freely and also want to avoid gold diggers.
Fair, i wanted to understand what the current dating scene looks like. and intellectual match is exactly why i am not able to vibe with anyone. also the other things that you wrote- spot on coz going through this.
Go through your parents, that's the best way or else there are high changes of getting scammed and never liking any man later
has happened. trying to step out of it but i fear what if even through AM it’s bad
Success rate is more if you go through parents, may be 1 for failed, but the next ones won't. Mental Trauma is really bad. Don't get inspired from movies. They are all fiction
I gave up on finding one. I will let my mom do the searching.
I don't have more energy to invest my time and emotions.
Would suggest matrimonial apps. Only one suggestion, when you talk to a guy be sure of what you actually want and more importantly what you don’t want (in future partner). First, understand yourself very well, understand what type of partner would be compatible with you and then try on these apps. All the best!
this makes so much sense, but i felt overwhelmed looking at the bad matches.
Hey In a same boat but I stumbled upon a very interesting venture named Mysa by Ankitha
She analyses your profile in detail and sets you up with relevant folks - A modern day matchmaker!
Her services have a nominal fees but tbh what’s to lose? So yeah I have given it a shot
Can share more details in DM
If marriage is what you're after, uncles are actually your best bet. They have no options so they won't wander and cheat.
please tell me where have i mentioned about “marriage” i’ve clearly spoken about finding a life “partner” which means getting to know one and marriage comes later(if only compatible). the “cock” in your username comes after the cockiness you have i see!
keep this unwanted info off the table, thanks :)
You mentioned 'serious' and that's generally a euphemism for marriage.
I was with one girl from last 5 yrs, yesterday she told me she's not interested in marriage with me.
The one girl with whom I thought I will spend the rest of my life left me alone. Pain is killing me.
Ps: both girls and boys are like that only these days
i’m so sorry! i can understand what you might be going through. but i tell you - it has happened for good. trust me there are good people out there. until you find the one maybe keep working on yourself
