When you are invisible to girls how you feel?
I guess I'm in minority, I mean girls ignore me left and right too. My face is weird and awkward i believe which repels women. Sharing what i experienced, what you would have done in my situation? I went to an office party recently, no girl even was talking to me. Everyone was talking hugging and you know what happens in office parties. I went for the first time after skipping for yrs and was totally invisible to girls. Does it mean I'm ugly or below average? I m extremely fair complexion wise and by far that day i was dressed solid too. Im 5'11. Girls totally ignored me, and i have seen girls with average guys. It implies I'm below average and a fail case in dating right?
In one post you boast how you are very attractive and drive a sedan etc, in other posts you complain how you are very insecure and have social anxiety, in posts like this you say how your face is weird and you might be below average. You have some serious self esteem issues dude, and you need to make up your mind. This is probably why no one finds you approachable.
Bro working hard is in my hands which I did. Now what, girls don't like my face I'm not feeling good about it. I wrote it because people say money attracts girls nothing happened in my case
I'm going to places now to overcome my social anxiety but still getting ignored by people left and right
Bhai seedha seedha batao ? Tu ek number k la*** hai. It's as clear as that. You are not looking for ways to make yourself a better person, to feel confident. But rather, you are just being a cry baby and comparing yourself to other men.
Women don't like low confident men. Psychological speaking, the female species genetically have always been looking for partners whom they can just lean on and not worry or be scared about anything.
Tell me one moment in your life where you've expressed yourself in this way. If you have, then you'll have definitely made into attracting or at least getting attention from one female in the room. But judging by your post content, I feel you've barely even pushed yourself to feel confident about yourself, let alone radiating it in the outside world.
Tuje kaise pta mein yehi baate krta hu irl nhi, online apni vulnerability share kri hai uska mtlb ye thodi irl bhi aisa hu 😭
Reaching out to girls (random ones who you've never known) is extremely hard in India because of social stigma that all random guys are bad. Try going to east Europe or south asian countries, or maybe slavic countries. There, you can confidently reach out to girls in public places like parks, restaurants etc, they will not be alarmed unlike Indian girls. And once you make some memories there, maybe you will find someone you like or get enough confidence to approach Indian girl.
These are all my theories, gotta make more money to finally try this myself 🙃
Definitely don't do this. Just because the red velvet cake was tasty in a country where you were a visitor, doesn't mean the red velvet cake that you find in your home country will also taste the same.
You gotta understand that.
It's not looks it's aura that makes you seen..
Bhai shareef admi hu drink bhi nhi krta, ab aisa hi hu mein. Aura wagera ka nhi pta but Darr lgta hai koi mera face dekh kr react na karde ladki
You need time and effort no one can help you except you. :)
@AlwaysResilient : confusing post. Overall I think you need to work on your body language - don't read body language books and stuff but I mean if you have been skipping parties and socializing fir years you are bound to be awkward and your body language might make it apparent being the primary cause for repulsion.
It is the case everywhere nobody talks to me. Here people making fun of me, i think my looks are not upto mark maybe that's why
Watch this video and try the suggestions
Sure
As a woman, most women dont really care about looks. But you could look like you are not approachable or would not like to talk
I do feel like that when I see my face in mirror but then what to do in that case?
Get rich ... and build a 6 pack
Look based on your interaction in the office party you know you don't have the looks or personality.
If you really want someone else to validate your life, start working on these things else i would highly suggest that you should start investing in your interests. Explore things that you genuinely like and pursue them.
Nobody who was with girls had personality either. Maybe that's true I lack in looks
