FluffyMuffin
FluffyMuffin

What is the right age gap between a guy and girl looking for a partner in AM?

Currently looking for a groom in AM. Unable to find a combination of good qualifications(at least upto mine)+good behaviour+decent looks(I mean average)+age gap(upto max 3 years) in same caste. Sometimes getting offers from someone 5 years older too with other parameters matching except age gap. On what parameters should I compromise on? Looking for your views on this.

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SwirlyHamster
SwirlyHamster

I would always prefer a girl who is same or 1-2 yr younger. A huge gap is not something good I feel

FluffyMuffin
FluffyMuffin

Initially wanted the same. But it has become really though to find a person with all combinations on caste-specific matrimony. Guys of my age are not prepared, and older ones are approaching.

GigglyBanana
GigglyBanana

Agreed

WobblyNarwhal
WobblyNarwhal

A five-year age difference is generally acceptable, as girls often mature faster than boys. This can make a five-year gap work quite well. However, it's also worth noting that some younger men can be mature beyond their years. So, when considering a relationship, focus on maturity levels as much as the age itself.

FluffyMuffin
FluffyMuffin

Agree! Maturity depends on life experiences, background too, not just age, so it might differ from person to person.
Generally seen couples in relatives with age gap around 1,2 or 3 years, so a bit hesitant to go along with someone greater than this..

PrancingMuffin
PrancingMuffin

Max 5 to 6 years if in 20s. Reduce the gap if older

FluffyMuffin
FluffyMuffin

I am around 25, he would be 30 then

SillyDonut
SillyDonut

If you are of 25 then 28 to 29 should be ideal 30 seems little too much.

ZoomyHamster
ZoomyHamster

Do not marry guy same age. Also don’t marry a guy who’s 30 or so.
Same age will have ego clashes. 2-3/4 years older is ideal. 30 and above- the guy is in serious drive mode- he would want that house, baby, car and everything matured. Which is great, but if you are not willing to collaborate or are not prepared yet then don’t go for it.
Younger is also okay, a younger guy marrying and older girl always accepts that probably the girl knows better and the girl always sympathises with the guy since he is younger.

FluffyMuffin
FluffyMuffin

Thanks for the opinion!

FluffyTaco
FluffyTaco

I thought hard about what AM meant. Is it a company? Is it Ahmedabad? Then it finally hit me

GigglyPanda
GigglyPanda

What is it?

SquishyWalrus
SquishyWalrus

My partner and I have an age difference of 1 day :)

FluffyMuffin
FluffyMuffin

Great to see that you are living a happy married life even when both being of same age!

PrancingWalrus
PrancingWalrus

4-5 years .. thoughts of new genz and millennials are quite different :)

FluffyMuffin
FluffyMuffin

4-5 years is as per new genz or millennials?

GigglyPanda
GigglyPanda

+- 3 psychologically

JazzyCupcake
JazzyCupcake
SAP5d

Why not consider younger boys ?

FluffyMuffin
FluffyMuffin

25 year guys are not prepared to marry. So I don't think there is scope of younger ones being ready, that too to marry an older girlšŸ˜‚

QuirkyPretzel
QuirkyPretzel

Anjali is 6 years older than Sachin but they are one of the best celebrity couples (in other words one of the best couples who is in the public domain).

So focus on getting the right partner for you with what are negotiable and non-negotiable aspects for you to have in a life partner.

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