SquishyDumpling
SquishyDumpling

Should I breakup with my girlfriend from another religion?

Im a muslim, she’s a hindu. Enough said. We’re both crazy in love, have good career paths and nearly everything else. We’re still under a year in our relationship. But I struggle to see the perfect future for us, my family could be accepting enough but, her family would absolutely despise me (from her own words), and then there also comes how society would treat us as an inter religious couple in this country.

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SparklyWalrus
SparklyWalrus

Big risk to get married, anything goes wrong and you'll end up in jail for forced conversion and love jihad, and then your house will be bulldozed. So take that call after thinking a lot.

BouncyMarshmallow
BouncyMarshmallow

Move abroad, earn loads of money and start family asap

FuzzySushi
FuzzySushi

If you're here asking this question, you already know the answer.

WigglyBanana
WigglyBanana

Its an uphill battle, but I have a friend who pulled it off

It’ll be very tough, lots of tears, lots of fights

But i hope you make it

SleepyLlama
SleepyLlama

Which location and standard you come, that's the biggest question here

SquishyDumpling
SquishyDumpling

Central Delhi, upper-middle class if that’s what you mean by standard.

WigglyBagel
WigglyBagel

If you really love her these things wouldn’t be a matter of your eyes after in a relationship for a year , You should have really thought of it before committing into something like this.

Seems you are having second thought? Then how you can be sure that you can convince family ?
In the matter of fact , she should have a second thought as we can understand that she is the one might have to leave her family. Then why are you having a problem? You afraid she won’t convert or what ?

SquishyDumpling
SquishyDumpling

No one is converting here.

WobblyHamster
WobblyHamster

It's better to breakup because it would be very difficult for her family to be convinced. Given the difference in ideologies of both the religion, even after marriage, it would end up in a situation where one of you may feel being suppressed. For instance, if her family agrees, then they may still expect you to follow the Puja rituals at their home, which may go against your religion. Or the other way, your family may expect her to follow your rituals which would go against her religion and upbringing. These differences can eventually fade the love away.

JazzyQuokka
JazzyQuokka

Yes pls do. India is not ready for this

PerkySushi
PerkySushi

Leave the country and get married

MagicalPanda
MagicalPanda

Dil ka suno . Bol k dekho .. hota h to sahi hai warna dil pe patthar rakh k bhula do !! But kosis kro ek baar . I dont want you to regret

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