“SHAADI waqt se ho jaana chahiye”

I don't think getting married is a milestone. Try to stay as single as you can.

• someone married for a few years now

Got married at 26. If i get a time machine, will do it by 24. There is a quote by ashneer, where he says, 30's are the most important time is building one's career and setting the foundation to make money. Distractions from family life/kids will kill both the careers and family. I think he made perfect sense.

I think the older one gets, its difficult to have compatibility. Too many external stimulus corrupts our view of the society. And more over everything has a purpose and we all come with a shelf life. If chances of starting a family is slim or nil, whats the point in getting married? one is better of single.

It is ok to get married on time or getting married a little late or not marrying someone at all. I have seen all sides of this coin. But marrying someone with whom you can enjoy life and have compatibility is gold and rare. So waiting for that to happen is not bad.
To answer your question , It would be completely different for me as I am a guy having a lot of responsibilities and my wife is sharing half of that. I got married at 29 and now thinks that may be more sooner would have been better for me. So go ahead and see what's out there and if you don't want to marry at all then drop this idea.

If you are capable of staying alone I would highly recommend not to get married. To this day I regret marrying. Na Ghar main Shanti rehti Hain na mom ke saath. Zhund jindagi hain. If you want to get married get married to girl who you love and known for many years instead of getting married in arranged set up.
Big red flag if girl is fan of big boss these types of girls are good for nothing

NOT NECESSARY TO GET MARRIED. IF YOU WANT KIDS BETTER ADOPT INSTEAD OF GETTING IN MESSS

Whenever you get right partner you want to enjoy your whole life. Be it 21, be it 40 or whatever.

Got married at 33. Thankfully, studied up, had already built a good career by this time, studied up, travelled a lot, partied enough and saved up too. Not sure if I could’ve done all this if I married earlier.

F here married for 5 years now. Married someone whom I love and respect. We had a love marriage it was a great decision.

Early or late marriage doesn’t matter finding someone who will love you and support you matters the most.
We build our home together in a metro city, both of us working and sharing equal responsibilities. So yeah marriage can be a blessing but a person should be right for you regardless of gender. Being single is always better than being in a bad marriage. Best luck!

Shaadi hi nahi dating(matchmaking if AM) bhi time se start ho jaani chahiye, preferably by 23-24. Instead of doing hedonist saxsux, handle it maturely by trying to have as many conversations and advertising whether life expectations align or not.

Raising a family with a friend as your lifetime roommate is a blessing. You need to put serious efforts to find that friend, except when luck favours you.

Also, with age you change physically as well as mentally. Problems of conceiving may come up, existential malaise, work or family issues may stress you out. Early 20s is when hormones overflow and the best of togetherness peaks physically.

I plan to not get married at all but let’s see what life has in store for me. I don’t want to FIRE, ideally want to work until I’m 70 and continue the same until I go out.

I know how you feel. Everyone around you is getting married or having kids. But let me break this to you, the only thing good about shaadi is kids. You will love your kids. Rarely couples are happy in marriage. They fight like cats and dogs. You will lose your mental peace trying to fulfill your spouse’s expectations. Most of the times they are controlling af. They suck out the good energy from you. I can go on but you will surrender to “char log kya kahenge” eventually . If I had a time machine I would have never married. Choose your mann ki shanti over shadi.