Personel advice on marriage- Genuine advice please.
Hi Guys! Hope you are doing good.
I recently joined Mastercard and working as SSE 30 Years old , I am above average looking guy , I got a proposal of marriage from a girl who cracked upsc and is going to join soon as assistant income tax commissioner [IRS- IT] , she is average looking girl , my friends say I might get better in terms of looks. But I am unable to take my mind off as I think her job has significant respect , dignity and stability. She is okay with me and is positive . The bowl is in my court . Any personel suggestion/Leads are appreciated.
Are you also inclined towards the govt job security of your spouse. I mean that can be a factor as well
Yes that’s that major factor , you never know when will IT industry will get completely rammed up. It looks so much uncertainty in this always.
Forget looks & designation.. Decency, Compatibility & mutual respect/attraction is the priority..
First of all Think and decide what is it that is your priority.. U wants looks in a person or Good heart then secondly meet with that person and get to know what she priorities.. and choose wisely.. Some people wants looks , some want good heart.. both are fine.. depends on a person what he/she wants.. But what is not fine is not knowing what u actually want and ruining lives..
Thankyou so much for your genuine advice . I met her once and going to meet about the second time.
She is extremely practical , I guess more than me.
TBH, looks did matter but I realised long terms look won’t pay our bills , a kind heart and a good person will be anytime good than a high maintenance girl.
