Not good relations

Sometimes i think it's good. Because having them also feels like same as they don't share anything don't talk much . Only talk when required help and money

It is good. But if you don't convey to them why you think it's precious and would like to be part of their life, they may not realise how you feel about this relationship

They are without any job but have taken so much debts and indulge in wrong doings without telling you. Only to tell afterwards when they need money. This happened 5-6 times.

One of my friend was in a same situation. Though his parents were good they were equally supporting other siblings who used to lose money over gambling and online betting. One fine day he searched for a job in a far away city left without telling anyone. Bought a new sim card and is now leaving peacefully. Last time I heard his parents now have thrown other siblings out of house and asked them to come back only when they become responsible.

I don't need anything. Communucation is good. I am living in different city for the job. They live with parents. But neither they tell larents what they are doing nor to me. Hiding and telling lies. Gambled so much money without letting us know only to take help afterwards