Is Detachment from Past possible?

@TremendousGrill15
Dude if you say no due to her past its very likely she will never expose this truth to her future marriage prospects. If you are planning to back off please back off giving some other excuse/ explanation.

Bhai agar me is situation me hota to me use ek ache dost ki tarah us ladki ko salah deta ki 6 years ka relationship ese give up nahi karna chahiye, tume us ladke ke sath firse relationship me aana chahiye.

Thode din ese advice do, agar vo ladki uske ex k liye positive dikhe to dhire dhire nikallo, agar thode din try karne k baad bhiagar vo uske ex me 0 % interest show kare to fir jaane mat dena bhai, fir ese achi ladki nahi milegi.

Insan easily juth bol sakta hai, uski feelings easily juth nahi bolti (koy usme bhi expert honge)

Lekin try kar sakte vo, ache dost ki tarah advice do, dono benefits me rahoge

I would recommend take some time to get to know her a bit. Like atleast 6 months. Don't hurry into it. As you said they were in a relationship for 6 years, she might have got over him or she might not have, you will have to observe that first hand in her behaviour towards you. Deciding in 4 meetings is very tough so tell her that you want to get to her a little bit more before you decide to marry and since both of you are still 25 there's a lot of time left as well.

But if she moved on from a 6 years long relationship without any trauma isnt that a little worrysome? I mean women are usually good at this but still.

There is no right answer. Every person is different, every relationship is different. You are the one who knows her the best here, so you should try to decide whether you trust her or not. Most of the time, your partner's trust becomes more important than the actual feelings and actions in a happy long-term marriage

1. Bring this topic in front of everyone including her and her parents and have a clear clear clear talk (record the call also), so that every single person is on the same page and you have some sort of safety net.
2. If that goes well, try to negotiate for a prenuptial too. Try hard for that

If both of these go well, marry. If only 1 goes well, can still marry but be very clear about non negotiable from the very beginning. If none goes, don't marry.

It very much depends upon a person. You need to see how genuine she is.
After long relationship she can either be matured in relationship or childish in behavior n cheat on u.

Do you like her and think she is telling the truth? If yes then go for it. If you don't like her or think she is lying absolutely don't go for it. You cant predict the future, only decide based on present.

Try to settle in some other city, so that it'll be little easy for her to forget her ex.

Bhai this ‘nibba nibbi’ love of many years takes couple of years to cool off, so think hard before jumping into it