I quit in life and relationships
Left my high paying job because new boss was disrespectful. Back at home, my husband is double disrespectful. Off course I give it back but there are many needs that are unmet. Financial- Will never give me a penny even when out of job . I dont even ask, I will manage Emotional- He doesn’t listen, he doesnt care, its a big turn off. Just imagine trying to say you feel depressed to the person with you in house who isnt ready to listen. I call random friends and talk as I dont have anyone.
This void is non negotiable, I am sinking in life with noone to help me there. Shouldnt a partner help you in life? I dream of running away, finding true love. I quit this relationship which only demands from me without giving back to me, leaving me alone in silence to suffer
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Most of times ppl start distancing themselves when we stop taking care of ourselves.
Focus ur mind in searching for better job opportunities n get a good job. Enroll ur self in gym or yoga or zumba it will help u to remove negative thoughts n will feel better n confident in life.
Start having good diet n follow basic beauty regime.
Don't limit urself by how ppl r treat u, treat urself. After all this c if ur relationship is changing.
Sorry, but I disagree. If at all, do all this to take care of and feel better about yourself. Not to fix some relationship that won't even come forward and say what the problem is. It just deepens the self doubt. Unless your husband explicitly says what the problem is, don't imagine and keep trying to fix things yourself. It's like shooting arrows in the dark. And the onus to fix this isn't on you alone.
Well marriages are like that, most times you end up with the wrong partner. I understand your partner isn't acknowledging your state and not available when you need it. I must warn you though, what you're seeking you wouldn't find it in any partner or friend and sometimes not even family. So this idea that finding "true love" after ending this relationship will fix you, it won't.
How much savings do you have currently? I see you started earning 10x after marriage. Please answer a rough idea. I have no interest other than helping you.
Also you could be going through an extreme depressive episode? or could be sign of a bipolar dis order. I know coz I've quit things like this and I have bi polar tendencies. There's nothing concerning, and there is everything out there to help you.
Hi! I just read that you have a kid and the abuse is beyond just husband not listening to you. Did you husband really encourage when your kid hit you? has it gone that bad?
Okay, it's complicated now that it's known you have a kid. Just know the country's laws are in your favour if ever shit hits the fan. Don't be subject to cruelty at any cost. So far it isnt cruely.
Also my question will still be the same. how much savings do you have?
And advice, still the same. Visit a therapist if you have the means. There are many out there cheap to expensive. If one doesnt fit your need, find another.
Thank you i will visit a therapist soon. I have enough savings to sail me through
Sorry for what you're going through, brighter days are always ahead.
Was your marriage arranged or love or hybrid
Love- I chose the man who loved me rather than the one i loved( because he cheated me), because i wanted someone to love me the way he did. But the love vanished once we got married. I chose love- to get only coldness in return. I was a milestone achieved, a trophy wife whose identity failed to exist
Whatever happens, please don't go for a kid till you can get this sorted. Surest place to start is therapy. If therapy and talking doesnt work it will be wayyyy wayyyyyy easier to separate without a kid.
Already hv a kid and its the only reason i am with him
Don't suicide This too shall pass You might not even remember this issue after 2 years
drink water, do sports, earn, read to begin with
If I'm not wrong, you are the one who had posted about your kid hitting you and your husband supporting that violence. I think I had read another post of yours regarding your husband.
What is stopping you from leaving him? If youbare earning well, why not use that to get out of this horror story?
If you cannot respect yourself and take a stand for yourself, then who else will? This is not going to get better, trust me.
All the best!
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Leave him be happy ,if you are not happy then there is no meaning in money , life partner, this that society anything, The ultimate truth of life is happiness , nothing else matters , according to what you are saying it seems he does not care about you then how many years can you stay like this ? Just for society and show off?
Why not leave your husband and job???