I don't relate with my friends from school or college
They have taken paths that suited them, very different from my goals in life. I'm not jealous or envious of them, heck I don't even feel anything towards them
And it has made me not put efforts in keeping the friendship
I would send a couple relatable memes or reels, laugh on the ones they share But when they ask to meet, I agree but never follow up (nor do they) Now, I don't even feel guilty
The friendship is just a tag now. None of my friends what is happening in my life nor do I know about theirs
That's how it is and how it should be. Focus on your life and move on
It’s totally normal to feel that way, over the time some emotions/connections don’t remain as they used to be, sometimes it lacks effort from both the side to stay in touch.
Our online interactions and social media have been making us less social IRL, read the book “Bowling Alone” by Robert D. Putnam
Dude totally relate with you… for some reason I feel they are still stuck at last and maybe we came long way .. while focusing on work and other stuff.. I always thought only I felt the same..
This happens, was literally telling my younger brother about this.
