SparklyMarshmallow
SparklyMarshmallow

How to stop feeling like I'm not progressing/losing in life though I'm not

I'm 25M. Recently switched job and got a good hike of 70%. But due to their weird salary structure i only get 30-40% hike in-hand(I'm still feeling disappointed since I told my family and had everything planned for 70% hike salary)

In-hand now: 73k + bonus of min 15k every quarter Since I'm a sole earning it's basically paycheck to paycheck

Working on my own startup it is going well so far made 7% profit YTD and will be making sure I make good progress

But I feel like I'm not achieving anything,

  • my dream is to at least make 100k in-hand (not yet)
  • In startup I'm making profit but since the capital is so small and I'm only taking moderate risk the return isn't much to call it 2nd income, quantitatively speaking.
  • Tried freelancing no luck
  • Tried contracts no luck

I know I'm not failing(except interviews) but not achieving these goals and living paycheck to paycheck feels like I'm a loser. I've an awesome and supporting family and gf and I don't want them to know I'm feeling like this since it will worry them 🙂

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GigglyMochi
GigglyMochi
EY22d

It'll work out bro. My journey's kinda the same, building something of my own along with the day job. Only thing to do is focus and keep grinding.

SparklyMarshmallow
SparklyMarshmallow

Yup I'm doing that without giving up... It's just that the feeling of being a failure even though I'm not has started to creep in

SillyPenguin
SillyPenguin

Not to scare you but , Abhi toh tumhe 26, 27, 28 age waale problems bhi dekhna hai life me.

SparklyMarshmallow
SparklyMarshmallow

I'm not too good with my hindi but replying based on what I understood...

Ya I'm aware those ages has its own problem but the issue is not the problem itself... It's just I've not met the goals in my life but I'm not failing either so I'm feeling this way

JazzyMuffin
JazzyMuffin
HSBC22d

You are doing good, you will reach your goal too. It is great you’ve built a start up too.

SparklyMarshmallow
SparklyMarshmallow

Thank you, hoping for that too!

SillyQuokka
SillyQuokka
PWC22d

What is your side hustle bro ? would love to know, as I myself is working on one project of mine, its live and working and I am getting the desired traffic and inquiry...

SparklyMarshmallow
SparklyMarshmallow

The startup is basically investment related. We take money from client(mostly my own) and provide the return based on the risk they can afford. Most of my strategies are automated so I dont have to do anything manually and it will run on its own

SparklyKoala
SparklyKoala

If you care to share, What is your startup about?

SparklyMarshmallow
SparklyMarshmallow

The startup I'm building is similar to mutual funds.. we take money from client and invest that based on their risk affordability(different plans/scheme)

In that I've made 7% return so far

SparklyMarshmallow
SparklyMarshmallow

The main reason for this post is

  1. Venting
  2. I will take some advice to stop feeling this way
PrancingMuffin
PrancingMuffin

What after 100k

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