Gf cheated, I found out much later
I know what to do, but i cant bring myself to do it. Context:
- Gf cheated, continuous cheating
- I found out 8-9 months later
- In between i broke up with herand she convinced me to give it another try, but didnāt tell the truth.
- I confronted, she confessed
- I left, she threatened to end her life.
- We started talking after that, now shes saying she learned her mistake, to take a leap pf faith and trust her again.
I want to know your thoughts and opinions, or what would you have done.
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She's not going to harm herself, just typical emotional blackmail. Ignore, break up and move on. You know you want to, looking for more reasons or validation isn't really going to help.
There's a chance she improves genuinely, but there's also a chance she doesn't. Upto you to decide if it's worth the risk, time and energy compared to finding a new partner.
Remember once a snake is always a snake! Leaveā¦
āCheated continuously and then threatened with suicide.ā Run as fast as you can after making your side safe. (Just in case she really ends her life)
You already know what to do man, stop giving in to your comfort zone...
Since she accepted her mistake now ask her to deal with consequences.
Leave her. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Once a cheater always a cheater. It's like once you've tasted blood, you cannot stop.
She might not cheat the 2nd time per se if you end up with her, but the primary reason why she cheated on you might resurface and compel her to cheat again or break up. My advice: stay away.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Never forget.