Friend vs Loneliness

Get married, if you are a man, your wife will decide if you are bored or not.
If you are a women, you get the opportunity to irritate someone.

I think I can add some value here basis my experiences( moved countries frequently, crossed the loneliness phase).

1. The fact you are sharing/getting inputs from an anon forum, proves that friendships are changing. All non-blood relationships are turning into more convenience/transaction based.

2. Develop some hobby, interests apart from your work. You can keep the friendships, companionships alive when you have some shared interests. You can travel, play sports, run marathons while making new connects. It’s not difficult to find people sharing similar interests in the era of internet.

3. Spending some time alone is necessary, especially after a certain age. Accept it, it will help you think about your life as well.

4. Keep sharing your knowledge, skills using digital channels. It will add value to you and people like you.

I hope these points can help you visualise modern friendship dynamics. Overall, it has to start from you.

If ya find a good hack, let me know as well 🙃

We're all in a similar situation, you're not alone. I got married and it helped a lot.