I'll go first: Dad's college friend asked why am I not married. He didn't want the answer anyway
So he goes: You know if women don’t marry, they start developing genetic disorders. It is science; the body needs marriage.
He had the audacity to say this loud, and when I retorted back, my mom was not happy coz I was being 'disrespectful'
He is right to some extent in particular cases. Some critical illness are genetic based and as age grows the genes defect start impacting e.g. breast cancer. Haven't you ever got any medical checkup and spoke to any Oncologist?
breast cancer will not go away because of marriage.
Obviously it won't go away but you would not marry someone who has a chance of developing cancer or someone with cancer, right? And you do know that cancer is highly hereditary if it is genetic and in such cases, couple won't go for children, right?
Go stone cold on these things. No flying F given.
Exactly!
From Gen Z - Marriage is not important and one can enjoy seggs by being degen.
what does degen mean? 🫣
Degenerate - कुलाचार
If you marry someone from another caste, it will bring dishonor to the whole family ki apne caste mein nai dhund sakte the. And this was not even my relative - it was someone’s brothers bil, like fuck you.
In India if you allow even the postman will have an opinion on your life, esp if you are a woman and your parents are peer pressured/society pressured. Be financially independent and stand up for yourself. If you cant fight your parents, go to a western country and live your life, yaha sirf gutter h females ke liye. Take care sis.
Masi: Get married Me: Income not stable enough to support family Masi: So what, she will take care of money
Poor masi thinks sugar mommies exist in India 😂
Completely up to an individual 🙌🏻
But I do wonder why a lot of folks don't intend to get married. Men doubt whether women would be truthful, and vice-versa. But yes, nothing is perfect.
1. shaadi ke baad yeh ladka sahi ho jayega and gussa kam karega 2. settle ho jaoge life mein 3. 30 ke baad ladka...
A senior colleague of mine is getting married because his mom feels lonely. I mean??!!!
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I, for one, had a similar question and asked about it. There isn't any answer to this. Either the elders in the family go silent or it turns into a very illogical argument.
When I go to the office, all of my colleagues talk to me very kindly. It's as if they're reassuring me that if anything were to happen, I have nothing to worry about because these guys will manage everything, including my family. However...