BouncyBurrito
BouncyBurrito

Burnout at 31, despite hitting ₹3.3 Cr net worth. What now?

Just wanted to share something personal and maybe find others who’ve felt the same.

I’m 31, have been working in Martech+ consulting for a while now. Between my full-time role and a few consulting gigs on the side, I’ve managed to build a net worth of ₹3.3 Cr. On paper, that’s success.

But recently, I’ve started feeling something I hadn’t experienced before: burnout.

It’s not just about the workload—it’s the constant context-switching, calls, late-night deadlines, endless pings, and the pressure to keep everything running smoothly. I used to thrive in chaos, but now I’m just… tired.

Ironically, the part-time work I do is what I enjoy the most. I feel challenged, valued, and free. But the full-time job—while it provides structure and some social interaction—feels increasingly heavy. Long commutes and rigid expectations are tipping me over the edge.

I’m not looking for sympathy—just curious to hear how others have handled this kind of moment. Did you quit and take a break? Shift gears? Rebuild your life differently?

Appreciate any thoughts or experiences. Trying to figure out what “balance” really means when you’ve ticked some boxes but still feel off.

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GigglyJellybean
GigglyJellybean

Maybe take a break, after all true wealth is doing whatever your like at whenever you want

SparklyDumpling
SparklyDumpling

man yeh toh woh baat Hui. . choti muh badi baat
especially if you are just a student... but some words of wisdom

FluffyKoala
FluffyKoala

Take a break for 1-2 years, to rest and recover, and then get back into your career. That's what I did in the past when I was feeling burnt out.

PrancingPotato
PrancingPotato

Here is my take:

Burnout often stems from a disconnect between what someone is doing and why it matters to them. With my limited knowledge as I have never been in your shoes, I think you should quit and take a break to find purpose, assuming you got sufficient capital to sustain you for next 6 months. Sometimes pausing or zooming out brings clarity.

Purpose doesn’t guarantee balance, but it gives you a reason to keep going, even when things are heavy. For example- What’s one thing you’d do even if you weren’t paid for it? Or, what’s a problem in the world you’d love to help solve? These questions can spark the introspection needed to move from burnout to a sense of direction Again, never been in such situation so can’t really share my experiences or right advice on this.
I wish you well.

PerkyCoconut
PerkyCoconut

Simple: leave your full time job. Continue part time and start planning to move to a tier 2/3 city. You'll have more time for other things and less expenses

PerkyRaccoon
PerkyRaccoon
EXL1mo

I would like to talk with you and understand how that part time gig works. How should i get started with it? Could you please guide?

SparklyDumpling
SparklyDumpling

@Bereal - i have been in your shoes similar networth similar age... took a break last year.
managing my own money and i am enjoying that. aiming to make 20% return a year. and that's it no other job

SparklyDumpling
SparklyDumpling

feel free to reach out if you want me to manage your money.
obviously won't be free but i have planned to do this for hnis who are willing to pursue their passions and dreams in the hope they do something productive for the world

JazzyPenguin
JazzyPenguin
Uber1mo

These are definitely not the boxes man, lol (Get married and realise) !! But yea take some pause and self reflect , give your personal life some more priority

WobblyPancake
WobblyPancake
Meta1mo

2 hours of smoke up and PS every night from 12am to 2am
has kept me stable

PrancingBagel
PrancingBagel

Spend some time with your family

WigglyUnicorn
WigglyUnicorn

Resign feel poor and start again

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