Best friends treating me as option
I have a best friend whom I know for 15 years. I am noticing that he is ignoring me for past few months. Recently he planned for a trip to northeast on New Year with his bunch of friends. He booked tickets and hotels already. Today he called me and invited me whether I m interested to join. Can give suggestions if I should really join or just ignore as I m treated as an option here and all planning was done with his set of friends where I wasn't even included.
I would say break it.. it does so much harm to u underneath than u can see it with your bare eyes. This is just something that came out... You don't know yet what more is inside his head. Or what lens he looks at you with. Chop off everything that takes u down 🪓. Fly solo.
this is something i personally follow- you weren’t part of the planning, don’t volunteer to be part of the execution.
This is one of the trickiest parts of adult friendships. Priorities shift, and sometimes you become an option instead of a priority. If you were not part of the planning, it is okay to step back and protect your self respect.
