As a single guy, how do you perceive marriage?
There was a time when having a partner was one of the most important things in life
But with laws being misused from the opposite gender and judges being corrupt to the core, it is becoming more of a transactional and emotionless affair
I’m 30, living a good life. My thoughts on marriage have changed a lot in last couple years. I want to but don’t feel like anymore honestly
I want to know from more single guys what so they think about marriage
Ask yourself why u want to get married in first place.
Men: Is it so that your spouse can take care for you and your family?
Women: If you are working- U want someone to take care of your everything, u r materialistic but at the same time u want to save your money, but like being pampered. :P
Many such things.. Both parties can be greedy or selfish in their own ways.
U marry for companionship in short. U create ur own family and that should be ur priority once u r married.
- Now since u r a guy.. If u want non working partner then she can take care of household things and whatever conventional set up is as per society .
- If u want working partner then pls remember whatever man wants woman also wants.. Be it her own freedom, dreams, me-time, financial independence, gym etc. So u will have to decide things accordingly.
If parents are dependant then u should take care of them instead of expecting wife to takeover on your behalf. Similarly goes for woman's parents.
Basically it's a team work and it requires efforts from both sides. Please be clear on your priorities and discuss them if you are going with arranged set up :)
does their list also include sleeping with other men ?
What I want from marriage is REALLY REALLY difficult
Loyalty, respect and faith is hard to expect. And hence this post
Sometimes as a woman i think of staying single. Get a dog, adopt a child, take care of my parents and have 2 sources of income, travel the world, get a hobby, volunteer, stay fit
No in laws drama, no thinking of other person while making a decision
Not because Im selfish, Im just afraid of making a wrong decision and suffering all my life with the guy
But then I see everyone getting married and feel Im missing something. And the process of finding somebody at 27F is sooo exhausting, get to know them in a brief period and take a decision
i think it all comes down to one thing and that’s LOVE
without it everything feels like a burden, with it everything feels like a fairy tale
people think temporary spark as love and get married, and then eventually find out it was not
the fact that the idea of LOVE has shifted from a “everyday decision” to “as long as it’s a pleasure” has ruined everything. no one wants to have a timed relationship because it ruins other parts of life
Was with someone but family said no because his kundali had major issues for career and wife 🥲
I post this multiple times a week -
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Due to the same thought, nobody is in hurry to marry, and you would easily spot many single folks in 30s around. In fact on matrimony portals you can spot many of 34-36 too, and many of them would be pretty good profiles.
Sab moh maya ha
Money waste
