Appreciation Post for Well Mannered Men.
Some men are really cute who set the right example. Like some days back a guy opened a door for me and let me go first like a gentleman without intention of flirting. I wish we get more men like him around.
Men never appreciate fellow men anyway.
Women hardly recognize and appreciate the good guys. They're at best friendzoned or ignored as good as dead.
Even if some woman makes the effort to appreciate, it is going to be on an anonymous platform like this where nobody knows who is appreciating whom. 😆
No wonder nice guys finish last. And it's actually quiet sad.
Same hpns with good girls also. Guys say they dont like girls nagging and who are after money n all but they also choose those girls and many good girls are still single.
Btw, I appreciate ppl in front of everyone also irrespective of gender. But, I don’t know him or his name actually. And will not even see him again actually considering HC of company😄.
There is a possibility that the man may have been a doorman
Bhaaiyo..ladki appreciate karne ai h, sala usse bhi lade ja rahe h sab comment me🤦🏻
@CityBoy thanks dude😊
@FreshDew5 bhai, humko kya pata. Ladki ne thank you bola hoga, agar nhi bhi bola lekin ye realisation baad me hua ki "not all men are same". Baaki mai tumhari baat samjh ra hu ki attention k liye bhi kara jata h. iss platform pe kitne log hi h ki attention lega koi (itne comments to mere insta posts pe aise hi a jaate h😅)
Ok, I see a lot of people commenting that guy do it for sex , or they have intentions to impress, or flirt etc.Well i see things a bit differently because I’ve faced it.
I have a group of friends and they all have gfs, I treat them nicely, always respectful. But I’ve listened to comments that I’m trying to impress them, or want to get laid behind my friend’s back. See , being nice is not always good. I want to be a nice person, but I restrict myself to a certain point (even when I can be nicer) just because I know the other person watching will think something else, but yes, definitely people like @COCO appreciate it, but the whole world out there still have a completely opposite opinion!
Why do you give f abt what others thinking (specially when you are doing good)?
Because i don’t want to ruin the relationship with my friends. Words spread and Just being a normal guy and not doing nice things are easier.
How do you know his intention was not to flirt?
It definitely was to leave a good impression on an opposite gender person. Even when not reaching the desired outcome, such flattery gives a momentary rush of adrenaline. A self-pat of being a well-behaved socially desired gentleman.
If not consciously, the move was certainly carried out off subconscious validation seeking.
There's no incentive to be a momentary doorman, unless out of humanity or sympathy if you had a visible injury rendering you unable to use the door yourselves.
Not everybody thinks and behaves the same Rollo. Some ppl are actually good without expecting anything.
Would an "actually good" guy hold a heavy door open for half a minute for a group of 20 girls? He'd make a clown out of himself with everybody including those girls chuckling at him.
