Interior Design AutoCAD Technical Leader

Hyderabadis or Angerabadies

People say Hyderabadis are some of the nicest people. I've been here in Hyderabad for 1.5 years and I can tell you, They're not nice. They're one of the angriest people I've met in my life and I've been around. I've lived in Mumbai, Kerala, Bangalore and now at Hyderabad post marriage. It feels like I'm in this wierd place where if people approach you, it's to complaint or fight. I've had 1 guy complaint to me saying my windchime is disgusting and that he and his daughter are not able to meditate because of it. I live in 5th flr & he's at ground. When we check with the home owners, they told me to keep it and give the complaint no mind. Then guess what happened. The guy started harassing my owners. He somehow got hold of both the couple's numbers and started sending messages daily 4–6 times. Then the owners told us that he was torturing them and shared screenshots, after which we removed the windchime from inside our balcony. The roads are shit. I've seen some bad roads and these are officially the worst. There was literally a portion of the road that was missing near my place. During the rains, the whole area would get flooded and we wouldn't be able to see where the hole starts. During this time, people just use the one way as a two way to avoid accidents. And guess what happened. When I did this, 1 tempo guy comes and hits my car. There was light and he didn't even bother slowing down and hit the right side of the car. I was driving. I remember thinking for a short moment before the impact, is this my end. We argued but I was on the wrong side so there was nothing I could say. We then left for the car service centre. When we came back, people were gathered in that area. Turns out, 1 guy went on the right side of the road in his bike and fell in the hole. A water tanker came from behind and hit him and went on. The guy died on the spot. When the people tracked the tanker and questioned him, he said he had no idea he had hit someone. This was just moments after my accident. Next came diwali. Me and my husband were going to buy the diwali lights. The road was supposedly fixed by now. Or so I thought. The road was wet. Either it rained or the water fell off the water tankers that frequent this road. I was in the backseat of our Activa. We were going, happily thinking about how we'll decorate our house. It was our first diwali after marriage. Next thing I know, I was lying flat on the road. My husband forgot the hole and we fell in it. My hand was bleeding nonstop and my husband had scratches all over his hands and legs. It's the first time I was in an accident. We went to the nearest hospital where the nurse tried to pull the skin out that was cut in my hand with his bare hand. It's a pretty deep cut, not something you can just pull off. Then he takes a scissor that was lying there, unsanitised and tried to cut my skin. I screamed in pain. This was brutal. It would get infected. So I left. We bought our own dressing and dressed ourselves. The next day we got tetanus shot. My husband was fine, but me - I got high fever. The whole diwali, I struggled to decorate and do puja and all the required things. We managed 1 photo where we looked .. well.. not sick and in pain. And now yesterday I was taking my dog out for his walk. He's a pug. The area has lots of strays. Everytime I go, they try to attack me and my dog. The whole place is like a dumpster with trash everywhere. There are water filled potholes too. It's disgusting. But there are no other places to go for his walks. I don't take him to any of the nice places. The main road is also not safe. It was night, around 9:30pm. There was no light in the area. We were on our way back, when 1 guy who was on the phone approached me. He said you can't walk your dog here. This is a private land. It actually wasn't. It was the road. I asked, This road is a private land? He said yes. I told him, it's not. He said, even if it's not, you can't walk your dog here. He'll pee everywhere. I was standing next to a huge pothole and I've seen people pee in the bush next to that multiple times. There were even stray dogs lying about. I pointed to them and said first you get rid of these strays. They're the ones staying here. Also, this isn't a private land. He said, let me take your photo and tried to take mine and my dogs photo. He came too close to me and I got scared. I told him How dare he take my photo and I took a few steps back. My pug who can easily win the laziest dog in the world award, who sleeps 21–22 hours a day and lives only to eat and sleep, he barked at the guy and showed aggression. He probably felt my fear and tried to protect me I guess. This made the guy take a few steps back. But I think he took a photo or video. Im not sure what I should do. I, ofcourse will change my dog walking route, coz I don't want to be cornered at night in a street with no light, I feel scared just thinking about it.

Govt folks get full security, but no security for mango men…

And if you point these out, andhbhakts will jump on you with “How dare you criticise Govt and not terrorists and Pakistan”! O my brain-dead fellow Indians (only few), criticising Govt for lapses, by no means indicates any ignorance to the brutalities of crimes, and certainly doesn’t mean anyone is less angry towards terrorists or their Pakistani establishment sponsors. But yes, if you want everyone to start hating Muslims and Islam in-general, well, that’s not going to happen. These terrorist attacks must be answered in strong terms, with real, actual ground steps, by hitting the actual centers of their power, but spreading hate against our own citizens, against entire specific religion of people blindly, is not okay. Thing is, many of those Bhakts will still parrot Govt’s lame lines that; the tourist place was never supposed to be opened, had been functional without intimating local Govt etc etc. I mean thousands of tourists are gathering at a place, since several days, but Govt has no clue and says that they hadn’t taken permission to open up the place! But of course those arguments will make the mainstay of Bhakts, who are to blame for the incompetence of the Govt. Demonetisation was done with a claim that terrorism will be over. Then Article 370 was amended/abrogated with similar argument, but still stupids will argue that Govt should not be criticised for lapses.

Advice Needed !!

Hi Everyone! Going through a tough phase of life. Been working in Tcs for the last 3.8 years. Growth was good here compared to others. Was employed at 3.36 as a fresher and the current ctc is of around 10 and received the promotion to c2 too. My mother got cancer around 3 years back in 2022. Her chemotherapy has been going for the last 3 years. The doctor gave her 5 years after it was diagnosed and she's facing so many issues that I don't dare wish it on anyone. I have taken a wfo exception frm this month ( went to the office first in 2024). I feel like I am earning too low and need to improve. But the issue is Tcs insurance covers the treatment cost to some extent. I still have to pay like 7-8 lacs per year but around 22 lacs is covered by insurance. I have doubts whether I should change the firm or not. Whether I'll get Insurance for a pre-existing disease of a parent or not. This is just one thing. I am not able to study, can't even forcefully do that. I also have too many health issues like ra, tmj. The feeling of not being able to do anything is eating me. My main concern is money but I am stuck and not able to do anything. Any advice, suggestions are welcome !