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Marriage Advice

Met a person on matrimony. Later knew that both families know each other. I have never personally seen or talked to them before. That person is in IT and earns good. I am also into IT and earn more than double their salary.A nice person with values. I am an extrovert. I talk a lot and share a lot about my life.But they were an introvert. They said they were putting efforts to talk more and share more but couldn't fully open up at a pace i expected it's been more than a month. They love to listen to me though. They are more homely. Both our financial backgrounds are similar. But they were bought up in a more restricted homely middle class manner and I am comparatively more modern outgoing have lots of friends and social life..they are okay with adjusting and even mentioned their liking after repeated asks..They don't have a great friends circle or a passion or ambition and more of a go with the flow type. They initiated a silly fight because of over thinking and even apologized later. But I feel we have lot of difference in the lifestyle, friends circle, ambition. I am doubtful about this alliance. Any advice or suggestion would be great.

Is dating hard for nerds?

Hi! I'm a 18 year old cs student and I currently work as a swe at a well funded startup. I've spent my whole school life doing programming, open source stuff & studying & didn't try dating back then. Everyone around me is dating and I'm getting FOMO from that. I tried out Bumble but the girls I matched with weren't my type, most were really extroverted and not nerdy at all. How do I find nerdy/like-minded women? also I'm a sub and most Indian women are subs so there's that too.

Startup Idea 2: Matrimony Matchmaking

What started as an Instagram-inspired social experiment has turned into a startup idea. (Refer: Men https://grapevine.in/post/808462ef-8ae0-4269-aaa3-c683ba1194bb and women https://grapevine.in/post/6bcaeffa-0cac-44a2-98a5-fc7a14786e85 survey) Few observations: 1. Our generation has moved on from orthodox thinking (baring few people) to more emotional compatibility 2. Men have more worldly expectations, while women seek spiritual features; none are right/wrong as long as they find each other. 3. Very glad that no one 'expected' the partner to take up gendered roles as dictated by society So, coming to the matchmaking platform. The idea is to have all aspects of life considered - personality, profession, family, demographics, physical attributes, etc. and have a weighted scale against them. Though I have my doubts here 1. An Introvert will need an extrovert to seek them but will be drained of social battery later. How do they match? 2. Physical attributes pull down people who aren't confident with their looks; that doesn't relate to how good/bad they are as partners. But without pictures, it will be a risky surprise element. 3. Prevent parents from creating accounts on children's behalf. Probably a social media log-in Share your thoughts on the compatibility algorithm and the problems we may face. P.S. I am not a techie, will need someone to actually build this. Will take care of marketing. Let's help someone find their soulmate ❤️ P.P.S. If this takes off, I will change my username to TimaSaparia