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Overjoyed to have my father alive this Father's Day.

Actually alive will be kind of negative word.. so recently I survived a very big car accident, I was driving and my papa was along with me, so one a turn car topple and it bounced upside down breking driver side mirror from which we both could come out instantly.. hopefully both of us didn't have any major injuries but had some minor scratches and so bit of bleeding.. That day..I was just thinking about not having injuries only.. but yesterday just a thought came in my mind..while watching a south fighting movie.. what if anyone of us or papa had any injuries.. because we have 3 mirrors in the front.. anyone going right into the chest could have killed us in seconds.. and thinking about this thought.. I couldn't move from that place for 3-4 hours and stopped that movie too.. Maybe something is left in my life journey..so I am still alive and maybe I am lucky to be able to spend some more time in my parents so papa is still with us.. I am atheist and have never been in any temple.. contrary to my parents behaviour..who are so religious.. may be, I am because of their prayers in all the Life.. Thank you life... for the second opportunity.🤞🙌🫡

How to help parents?

My Father is a businessman, he worked hard throughout his life & luckily all of us (siblings) did good in their life. Everyone is on their own now.. Sisters are married & well I am outside trying to be something.. and my parents are at Home.. My Father is still doing his business but it's not running too well. I try to explain them that there's nothing to get stressed.. you know, just earn enough, have fun, travel, maybe go to temples, take it slowly. Luckily we have enough funds to survive & even live a good life. But somehow he's in pressure always. He hates the idea of being retired (which is pretty much understandable) He's like - why I need to retire.. this is not my age to retire. He's 58. And I'm fine. I have nothing against him & his work. Do it. That's fine. But don't take stress. That's not good for his health. I'm actually scared about this. Also both of them are alone at home. And I'm usually tense about them. How they must be feeling. The loneliness. Boredom. What if they get sick. What if something happens. Etc etc. I don't feel good, when I see how they worked hard all their life & now when it's the time.. no one is nearby.. I can definitely ask my parents to shift with myself, but my own life is pretty much volatile rn. I wanna stable in a year or two.. then maybe we can.. but for now I'm not sure. So I'm asking here, What can I suggest my parents to do? What businesses they can try? How can I keep their life fun, exciting, engaging? How can I comfort them to not take stress about work.. and take a bit rest in their life? Any help is appreciated. Thanks.

I can NOT father a child due to TCS lift

Today, I was late for a meeting so I was running in the campus. I saw that the lift was about to close so I went sideways to reduce my cross section for entry. Since I went hip first, the lift closed and I got trapped between the two doors. My gonads got forcefully trapped by the closing gates and I screamed as hard as I possibly could. This lady inside the lift started laughing at me and the guy tried to pull me in. I was ashamed of what had happened to me and I felt very sore there. I went into the washroom and there was heavy bruising there. Now I cannot have Putra Bhagya basis my expert opinion formed via my 2 minutes of search on Perplexity and Quora. Furthermore, now I have to take tomorrow sick leave and will not be able to work my 14 hour workday and 70 hour work week. Sorry Narayan Murthy sir. I will not be able to contribute to economy and help India become #1 economy of all time by working 70 hour per week. Sorry Bhavish, I will not be able to sire children now so hopefully my Work Life Balance will now only be Work Work Balance. I wish I waited for 2 seconds so that i can contribute to success of my bourgeoisie personality.