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Is infertility crime or only female related ?

Married , now in stage of divorce bcs I found few months before he was married and got baby to another girl( already married and have 2 kids) and even settled her husband for divorce , it's for 2 yrs totally while he was cheating me , I was facing his anger, scoldings , ignorance, loneliness , guilt pressure , his absence etc bcs I was trying for baby and taking my second IVF in my parents place hoping to get it successful since my first IVF failed and he pressured to have baby of his own blood? I adjusted all his accusations, mood swings , absence etc with heavy heart, emotional trauma , loneliness etc bcs I am guilty by myself baby is not happening, while I was taking myself through this painful journey all by myself with assumption baby will make my life happier it's utter shock to learn about his betrayal , when confronted he simply said " he needs to prove his manliness , so it's the situation and moment he hold the baby was priceless and I don't have any rights or status to accuse him or that affair girl, she too said we mutually like each other and we are living what's ur problem can't u stay shut? And they were also saying "adultery is not crime , so i cannot be punished and I don't need divorce , u continue ur IVF treatment , get baby , keep that as holding and live ur life I will visit u monthly once , I will convince my lovely(affair) to this setup , don't make any noise , u earn and continue living if ur expenses exceed ur earning I will provide , other than this don't lose ur time and money in legal proceedings bcs I have my own way and influence. Else if u definitely need divorce, get ur dad provided things and jewel and transfer our joint property to my name and leave silent, I have invested in business ,so that's all I can give also I have around 2lakh spending for my family each month, so I should take care of it " having said all these he now openly living with that girl and family , both family accepted this relationship and now blaming bcs I am childless , while I have my embryos freezed and only Embryo transfer pending but all stopped and now am living n hostel and contining my job, so did I commit any crime here to deserve this ? While am running a round legal proceedings bcs I need to prove everything he is just living his life , enjoying his baby arrival , taking girl of that women children saying he is their father , but just want me to lay low bcs I am alone , I don't have to provide anyone and he says me to earn and live a dignified life bcs not all betrayed womens keep sulking and they stand on own legs , I just don't get it , on top of me emotional, mentally invested myself in painful journey of treatments , beared all this trauma I am just thrown out , so now I lost everything, in process of recovering and law asks for evidences ? Painful journey

Is it really worth it?

I am an intern at a Financial services firm, here i have a senior who has recently moved from Kolkata to Mumbai for this particular job, Here she is getting an amazing salary package as a fresher, but the environment here is really unhealthy, she and my senior (who's also my reporting manager) both of them are extremely overwhelmed with work ALL THE TIME! Here there is very poor internal communication and the work over here gets done according to the mood of the senior manager, and the senior manager can be extremely moody, she is sharp, intelligent and strategic but moody, so the person I am referring to the senior who has moved from Kolkata is going through ALOT! My question is, is it really worth it to put yourself through so much of misery, i know people have their priorities but I am curious to know people's opinions on this

MOODY'S SAP ABAP INTERVIEW

Hi Folks, Has anyone gone through the Moody's SAP ABAP INTERVIEW? Kindly let me know