ExtraOrdinary Job Coach

What if there is no promotion for me

Can I stop pretending that I am extraordinary employee for the company and I can turn around things in no time. Can I peacefully enjoy the time the appraisal cycle and plan for the exit? Happy to be the employee whose rating says “satisfactory work done”

Writing in the shadows

I've always wanted to start writing on LinkedIn, but I never felt confident enough. I’m not famous, nor have I done anything extraordinary..just living a pretty normal, mediocre life. But there are moments from my childhood that feel special to me, and sometimes, after work, I just want to vent about random things. So here I am, with an anonymous identity, drafting a few posts in my Word document, finally preparing to share my thoughts.

“Lost in Thoughts, Trapped in Time: My Mistakes and Battle with Productivity”

Hi, I’m just an ordinary person with extraordinary dreams — someone who wants to achieve things that are possible for me. But here’s the catch: I’ve spent too much time dreaming and too little time doing. I often find myself stuck in a cycle. I have so many things running through my mind — not physically, but mentally. Sounds familiar, right? We all experience this to some extent. But here’s the real problem: I waste a lot of time just dreaming, without taking action. It’s almost like the changing seasons — just as days turn into months and months into years, my thoughts keep shifting. I move from one idea to another, endlessly observing and consuming. You’ve probably seen that viral phrase: “Men scroll, men see, men happy.” That resonates with me on a deeper level. Sometimes, I feel like it was written for people like me — those who get lost in consuming instead of creating. I believe no one faces unique challenges in life; we all experience similar struggles. But am I wrong? Let me know your thoughts in the reply section because sometimes I feel like I’m stuck in a loop that only a few can truly understand. Self-improvement, productivity, consistency — these words inspire everyone, including me. I dive deep into new topics with passion, learning everything I can. I’ll research, analyze, and absorb information until I feel like an expert. But here’s the thing — I never implement it. It’s a strange feeling to be knowledgeable but inactive. I enjoy the process of learning, but when it comes to applying that knowledge in real life, I hesitate. Why? Honestly, I don’t know. Maybe it’s fear, maybe it’s comfort, or maybe it’s the illusion of progress without real results. Yet, despite all of this, I take comfort in knowing that I’ve learned something new. Looking back, I can see my personal growth, but it often feels like a meaningless loop without tangible achievements. Learning feels good, but achieving feels better — yet I struggle to make that transition. In moments of doubt, I remind myself: It’s all God’s plan. I believe my intentions are good, and I have faith that one day, everything will fall into place. Each day is a blessing, and I’ve learned to be grateful for it. Gratitude keeps me grounded, even when my ambitions seem out of reach. One of the biggest hurdles I face is managing my time. While everyone around me seems to have mastered it, I feel like I’m still figuring it out. Right now, as I write this article on my bus ride, I’ve realized something — I can make use of my daily commute. Three hours of travel every day can either be wasted in mindless scrolling or utilized for something meaningful, like writing. I’m choosing to write because expressing my thoughts might help me break free from this cycle of endless thinking. I don’t know if you’ll enjoy this article, but I hope you’ll appreciate the way I’ve expressed my thoughts. If you’ve ever felt the same — stuck between learning and doing — know that you’re not alone. We’re all figuring things out, one step at a time. What’s one thing you’ve learned but haven’t implemented yet? Let me know in the comments — I’d love to hear your thoughts.