Junior Interior Designer

Overjoyed to have my father alive this Father's Day.

Actually alive will be kind of negative word.. so recently I survived a very big car accident, I was driving and my papa was along with me, so one a turn car topple and it bounced upside down breking driver side mirror from which we both could come out instantly.. hopefully both of us didn't have any major injuries but had some minor scratches and so bit of bleeding.. That day..I was just thinking about not having injuries only.. but yesterday just a thought came in my mind..while watching a south fighting movie.. what if anyone of us or papa had any injuries.. because we have 3 mirrors in the front.. anyone going right into the chest could have killed us in seconds.. and thinking about this thought.. I couldn't move from that place for 3-4 hours and stopped that movie too.. Maybe something is left in my life journey..so I am still alive and maybe I am lucky to be able to spend some more time in my parents so papa is still with us.. I am atheist and have never been in any temple.. contrary to my parents behaviour..who are so religious.. may be, I am because of their prayers in all the Life.. Thank you life... for the second opportunity.🤞🙌🫡

A women challenged me to arm wrestle with her out of nowhere in the gym

So it was a normal day, me and my gym bro doing chest. A lady came, probably of our own age, pointed at me saying this to someone in the back, "Hey, I will defeat this man, he is weak, men are weak" I ignored and resumed my set, she then, grabbed my hand, saying, "Kyu dar gaye? Aukat nhi hai" She was provoking me, but I wasn't able to analyse why, to keep my self respect, without saying a word, I went with her, although my gym bro said no. She said, "Mai 1 saal se gym kar rhi, tum naye ho, aaram se har jaoge", she was muscular than me, atleast looks wise, but hey, let's get this over with. 3 sets, I defeated her without a sweat, as if jaan h na ho, madam ji k haatho mai, without saying a word, I went back to my machine and resumed my set. She came back crying, ladki hun mai, tum nhi hara sakte mereko, I said, go train for yourself and don't waste my time. She tried to slap me, I stopped her hand, thoda sa seen bangya gym mai. Some people are just kids in adult bodies.

How freedom looks now

74 days without work after 14 years of continuous employment. The strangest part? Some mornings feel like freedom. Some moments feel like panic. Both feelings sit in the same chest at the same time. I’ve been waking up without an alarm, taking my kids to their swimming camp, learning when the mood allows, resting without guilt. Simple things I never had time for. But here’s what this break is teaching me — Mood needs safety before it can do anything meaningful. No fixed routine forces you to ask what you actually want, not what the job needs. AI is reshaping the market fast. For some it’s a rocket. For others it feels like being force-fed until you can’t eat anymore. I’m waiting to get genuinely hungry again. And in the quiet, bigger questions are surfacing — What are we actually building? For whom? And what do we take when we leave? No answers yet. Just honest questions from someone in the middle of an unplanned pause. If you’re in a similar space — between chapters — you’re not alone.