You are 18,you wake up and you are in a 10 cr debt for a lifetime.
Hey, this is the unhidden truth about my family.
I was 18, had just taken the JEE exam, and didn’t get into any college. I wasn’t worried, though. I thought my father would easily pay for any private college, and I’d live a good life. We were a middle-class family—my father earned 3–4 lakhs a month, while our cousins earned crores. From the outside, the world thought we were rich, but the reality was far different.
After my exams, I found out my father had lent 2 crores to my cousin for his business, but only 1 crore was returned. He borrowed this money at high interest and soon fell into 2–3 crores of debt, which he kept secret. Later, we found out it wasn’t just 3 crores—it had ballooned to 10 crores due to unpaid loans, betting, and gambling. My parents tried to hide the truth from me, but I found out in 2021. That’s when I developed bipolar disorder.
Over the past six years, we’ve repaid 6 crores through land sales and cash, but 2–3 crores are still left. Clearing this will take another 3–4 years. Meanwhile, I had to quit my BTech due to our financial situation. Now, I work at our utensils shop and try random online businesses. Honestly, I can’t even afford to buy a phone for myself and feel stuck in this endless struggle.
What should I do now? How do I find peace with this? Why did God put me in this situation? Sometimes, I can’t help but wonder—why me?
Leave family. Find a new dad.
I ask only one thing from god.i am 25 now.
Should I leave them to do karja utaro scheme.bhenchod adhe se jyada to is mama ko dene hein.mera mama 2-3 cr rupee leke mere baap se betha h aur property bhi h par bc humara Ghar bik jayega par vo nahi dega. Aur meri mummy aur papa ko is baat se koi problem nahi h.
Kehte h uspe jab hoga vo dedega. Vo kuch nahi karta par uspe property h vo bech ke dede.ye use ghar bulayenge merese seva karvayenge.
Bc kahenge hum utar rahe h Tereko kya. Vo humara bhai h.
Are bc mera bas chale toh karlu a 30-40k job aur jine du inhe par fir vahi bakchodi ki tu nalayak aulad h.
Aaj mujhe business karna ho to 10lakh bhi nahi h aur khus uske karodo rupee utarenge.
Utter nonsense toxicity and what not. No standard of living nothing. Aur ab mujhe kehti h ab tu shadi karle arre mujhe toh pagal kar hi rakha h koi aur aayegi usko bhi jab pata lagega ki ghumte creta mein h par h than than gopal. Usko bhi kyu trauma dena.
