At 36 - 14YOE the role demands too much and It’s exhausting as I do not get quality time with family and my 3 year old. Always feel pressurised even if I be efficient at work.
become a manager
People manager is something takes a while. In these banks they have fancy titles for individual contributors who lead the Audit project and staffs but don’t have direct people reporting. From my current role Vice President to Executive Director is a long way after tough fight and dealing with politics and losing even more time away from family. May be have to switch company and become people manager.
If only it was so easy to become a manager
This is the reality in India. And it has worsened since there are more job seekers than available jobs. Now, employees have no choice as they can't switch jobs easily
Go a bit Slow, Your Health and family is more important than your work pressure, learn to politely say No. Increase Your Stress Handling capacity by meditation
At this age and experience, you're a burden to the company if you're not doing extremely well, because they can replace you with 5 cheaper options who can do your mediocre job. The only option to survive if you don't have any options is to suck it up and make time for other things. If you're plenty in your pocket, start saying No. Remember end of the day no matter what decision you take, it's your family that's going to suffer. They'd like to have a dad with a job than a dad who's jobless and spends all the time with family.
You are not helping but scaring.. I’ve been completing more certifications and upskilling by learning new tools already, just to stay current and not a burden
You need to figure out who to give priority to. Some days work might be the front runner but other days you need to know that your kid, wife and parents need you and you need them.
Utilise your holidays fully. Don’t save leaves for years.
And if you have a decent size corpus, take less hikes and make the most of your time.
Just learn the art of saying no man. You need to protect yours and your family’s time
But i thought as people cross 10+ yoe they live a chill life as technically they know everything and they just manange things and no one can pressurise them. It seems That's why people say govt job > sundar pichai job
You know everything and you now execute and lead everything - is the expectation. With authority comes so much responsibility..
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