Women, men do understand your feelings
We women are very expressive, and tend to think that men don't understand, that they don't feel enough, that they don't get it!
But recently while having a conversation with my special someone, I realised this - men do understand. It might be that they think through things, make the efforts only for their "pasandeeda aurat", but they do understand. They might not be as expressive as us women, but they got our feelings and they know where we are coming from when we talk about something. Our feelings and thoughts aren't lost on them.
My learning? Give him the time and space to express himself and not impose "how I would do it". Everyone is different, and I should understand and respect his way of expression just as he does mine.
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Or women could just ask.
My observation is most committed women have an entitled feeling that their partner “should understand”. Not sure where it originates from. In reality, no one can read minds. Asking specific questions or giving instructions always beats whatever bs “signals” mean.
Trying to read signals and emotions is mentally taxing, esp in our fast lives and unnecessarily strains the relationship.
Totally understand what you are saying. But what I said is different - us being expressive and thinking that men don't understand, because men do tend to shy away from expressing their thoughts which leads us to think that they didn't get it, and this ends up causing fights.
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Interesting context.
And to quote the post "they might not be as expressive as us women"
- what's the criteria of expressiveness?
- who gets to decide?
- and what does it achieve?
Thanks for writing!!
You have hit the nail on it's head, and what you have posted is very meaningful plus deep. I know you will get the man of your choice and he will be sorted for life. All the best !
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