Wife stopped behaving as wife after baby
After our baby born she is always into the baby. She is working women, either she does her job or feed baby. She doesn't have time for me. Our sex life went to hell. She doesn't even show any interest in having sex. If I initiate then we do otherwise not. We are working remotely and have house maids and cook. She doesn't have to do any house chores. From some time she is not even respecting me. What should I do here? I am losing respect and love for her. How can I prevent it. I don't want to break this marriage because of kid.
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Why u care about sex life before her well being? She might not need that it's ur need put her before ur need else what's ur purpose?
it's not about just sex but giving time in relationship as husband and wife together. There are lot of things apart from physical relationship.
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Help her in doing things , if she is feeding baby try to sit with her and help her by playing with your baby
All things I do. I play with baby take him outside to play. In home also we play read do everything.
Its normal..new moms by nature are tuned to only take care of the baby once born..because she is responsible for everything.and the overwhelming portion of nurturing hormones.....add to that the stress of work...she is 500 percent exhausted much more than u think she is..so her drive is gone...things will pick up once her body settles down
Yeah this makes sense thanks
As a parent you need to take care of wife and kid... Nothing else should be thought about...
Make both of them happy in all means... You will also be happy... Give time and space....
May be, feeling guilty of not taking care of baby completely, as she has to work else it impacts financial situation. This is also one chance.
Yeah this is the reason. I am trying to convince her babies are like this only. Let them grow by their own pace and stop worrying too much about it. But she doesn't listen to me and ignores me.
May be, becomes normal after child gets marriage and having their own. Till that time, wait and be healthy, what else can be done..
If she doesn't you have too. After delivery many hormonal changes happen in females body this is time which proves your true relationship. Most of breakups/divorces happen at this time. Handle carefully Take professionals advice not in forums like this.
I don't want to take it to divorce. I love my family just wanted advice how can I handle this situation better. It's eating me up that I am also emotionally distancing away.
Once a woman becomes a mother, it’s natural for her world to start revolving around her child. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t care about her partner—it’s just that her priorities shift, especially in the early stages. Also, there are significant hormonal and emotional changes after childbirth that can affect her mood, energy, and even interest in sex. It’s not about rejecting you personally. What’s needed is patience, open communication, and emotional support during this phase. Go on a vacation and if possible try to discuss the things you are feeling with your partner in a polite way.
Your life cannot revolve around her.
You will lose respect if you care more about her than she does about you.
You need to be focused on your path and purpose.
Read 'The Way of the Superior Man' to know more on male-female dynamics.
Bro keep silent don't think about yourself, just take care of family not yourself. This is what everyone wants to a Man. 😅 Even see your advices in comment everyone is saying change something in you, nobody suggested you to talk to her and try to find out solution with efforts of you both. So keep silent take care..
It's normal, new moms are very worried and impatient. Even when I became father it was like that, my wife tooks 3 year to understand that whatever she does baby will keep crying every hour.