Why should I marry ?
I have been with a beautiful person and I have that sense of love now, it's not about possession anymore.
Something very beautiful happen after we decided to part
I met myself
I went into osho, i starred reading upnisads, I have isolated myself , no more phone , more of books and meaningful things
No more unrealistic conversation , no more people pleasing and many other.
I am doing good financially , mentally , emotionally , I am being with myself
All i have learnt is everything I was looking outside it's within me, and trust me I am not just saying it for sale I mean it.
The point is i am 29
Now as per society , i must marry now , or i too feel if I have to marry I will marry in 1-2 years only else it will late and why to late if I have to marry only
But I have no clarity why should I marry ?? Why actually ? Emotionally i take care of myself by reading books spritual and these meditation practice everything at end seems very temporary. And reading and knowing about myself is better Sexual I don't have that much now ? Even if It comes, i can manage with self pleasure? Or paid sex is there these days (don't judge for that all i mean sex cannot be reason to marry)
For household work I can manage on my own or I can have maid, I have one who do work ?
Why should I?
The answer I have as of now is
The one who will support in making more into myself, like she will let me grow and i will let her grow . This is the only answer I have
I really very keen to understand what's beneath ?
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- U r still using phone
- U r still looking at others opinions to find answers
- U r still subconsciously looking for marriage since u posted the big post.
- Ur lulli is dead.
Come down to the ground, from the tree.
May be you are not at the frequency I am talking from?
There is shloka In srimad Bhagavad Geeta
Svadharmo nidhnam sreyah pardharmo bahyawah
- Because I don't feel like I am the smartest,
I know there n number of people who seen known world better than me, if there guidance help it makes sense, and using phone?
There is word called kalsapeskh - do according to time
I cannot go and write a letter and post it to post office this time to parents, i cannot go find experience people door my door trail and error will be useless. Why can't I use phone
I use it as resource / tool to simplify things
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Because I don't feel I am the smartest. I know there n number generous people who have been through they must have something
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Obvio I am looking for it, Because I can't make this decesion after. 5 years this is the time.
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Is your always erected? Oh may be u think from there itself, it needs to be active .
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Having a career is great, but you can't cuddle up with a career on a cold winter morning. I also used to think there was no point in marriage and that it is all transactional. But we human beings are social animals, we need to be with someone. I don't have many friends and now all of them are busy, so there is no one to talk to. Maybe you can do some activities to spend time but there will be some nights where it feels heavy and void. Not everyone can stay single if you can, that’s some next level dedication. No one is perfect, and no one has a perfect life. Marriage is just a social construct, you don't need to marry, but you also can't be alone and single forever.
😍 love the warmth of yours.
True reflection of AP’s guidance.
I totally agree with your points.
Not Ap, I have respect for him, i strongly agree to his point.
But more I feel it by myself , it's not his thoughts is keeping the seed in my mind
I have started with OSHO.
Actually I looking for the answer, so that I can convince myself if something strong comes that married people have seen, that i am unaware at the moment
If you need someone to explore life with you-- then marry.. Otherwise nope..