WHY IS THE OTHER GENDER SILENT??!!!
This is not a hate post, just a depiction of the world inside me. Is marriage really safe?? For men, and also for women??? I am the most romantic, old school believer of love, who sees everything in this world with the lens of positivity. I was the one who used to convince other guys "to get married and not see towards a few lakh cases of false cases but on the crore of happy marriages"
The way a girl would feel unsafe walking in Delhi after the nirbhaya case, I am (also other guys) are feeling unsafe, used, broken, insecure after Atul Subhash made this sacrifice to "Give message to the judiciary system and all men of this country"
He could have done suci*de without creating video, but he wanted to give us the message.
After case of Nirbhaya the parliament opens open in midnight to pass the laws for women protection, but till date after this case no one has talked EVEN ONCE IN PARLIAMENT ABOUT MEN LAWS. (I don't have time to woooo the party in Power or opposition, but why is there no one for us)
I always tell girls, if a man is masculine enough he would wanna spend lakhs over you. To men I say you need to earn a lot so that you can take care of your family. But, WHYYYYYY ONLY MEN HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THIS??? Why isn't social media filled with female creators showing outrage on this situation?? We men always SPEAK LOUDLY ON ALL SOCIAL HANDLES when we see a monster did something.
The romantic person inside me is dying, the masculine man who wants to provide to the family and to the world is recalculating my direction of life. Women being silent over this (unlike men who speak aloud when something wrong happens against other gender) is equally responsible to make us feel we are on our own to take care of ourselves.
Should I be positive or realistic?
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Firstly you don't need to spam in multiple communities. Your post and your emotions are enough to get the traction in a single post.
Secondly, please be realistic about everything. There are men out there who are nothing less of monsters and there are women out there who wouldn't bat an eye if you hit rock bottom or die if they are getting what they want. No gender is right or wrong. Both have nice, kind people, as well as rotten ones.
Should you marry or not is your judgement. It's a risk, yes, with all the laws favouring women, and that's where you do your due diligence. Find yourself a right partner and minimise the risk.
And trust me it boils my blood when I hear about the misuse of laws at the hand of these women. I haven't been able to watch the whole Atul video because I just am not in the place nor have the heart to see it knowing that man is no more.
The kind women are standing with you, we want everyone to have a safe place and life.
this is what i've seen in most of cases recently but with either gender it always ends after few days and no one does anything and nothing changes too.
but hope is still there or atleast i try to believe sometimes
just like this case which recently happened
Have seen many such videos in past 2 years where wife is demanding such unrealistic number. I ALWAYS CHOOSE TO SEE POSITIVE SIDE AND IGNORE SUCH CASES..... Now unsure if I should continue ignoring this reality and be positive
See marriage is a risk, i myself 27M, Software engineer, really scared with the marriage now.
but there is nothing you can do in marriage disputes
just try to read some laws. (i have educated myself) and if you are lucky to get good judge and took rights steps
you can come out with less damages.