Why is Hookup still a taboo?
I don’t get it….why do Indian men still treat hookups as a sin? I had some intimate moments with some of my dates…I don’t get emotionally attached to them…but some men can’t handle my past…
Why can’t we think openly and be more accepting? Instead of judging…shouldn’t we accept the fact that some people don’t prefer a long term relationship….
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why do you want to cry about it, if someone is not accepting, don't associate with them, find someone who is ok with it
The point is I want understand why it’s still a taboo, I never said I am looking for a solution…just looking for some perspective
Isn't there a 4 letter bad word that starts with SL for a woman who sleeps with way too many men? That word is being used since the 14th century.
Why would it change now?
Such a pathetic statement. Shows your mentality. Complete disgrace . How dare you refer a whore as a slut???
I am an Indian woman, I don't like hookups, I wouldn't like a man who does hookups because that's not my preference, but I support others' mentality. It's a choice. The choice should be clearly communicated with the partner beforehand, to avoid further issues.
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Indian men is not a monolith. There are some who are more liberal and open minded. And there are some who are more conservative and judgmental.
Both these kinds of people exist among women too.
So stay away from conservative and judgmental people in general, and this is a good universal strategy not just for living in India, but in any country in the world
But the problem is that you have an influence of society on everything you want to do…if I am living in a rental apartment… I have to adhere to misogynistic rules that always favour a particular group of people..similarly these people try to make your life miserable in so many ways you can’t imagine…
Earlier there was an incident where a fashion show in Rishikesh was hackled by a bunch of men were moral policing few fashion show participants…
In such cases it’s easier for us to casually comment they you did… but you need to understand from my perspective as well…
Some things are still seen as taboo, and judgment can follow if you allow it. What you’re feeling may just be a phase, and that’s okay. Experience it fully, trust yourself, and do what feels right.
Amen! Brother
It can be a post for engagement post but in today’s society its true.Up to a certain age, it’s fine to explore and make mistakes. But after a point, people start looking for stability, clarity and a meaningful future.
When someone says “some men can’t handle my past”, often it simply means those men want a reliable, emotionally mature partner for a long-term life.
The past matters..not to judge, but to understand patterns. Just like in trading, we study history because behaviour tends to repeat and human behaviour repeats for sure.
Life is much bigger than short-term attraction, pleasure or money.
With age, what truly matters is emotional maturity and the ability to build something lasting.
People nowadays lack clarity, you are just hollow inside …
Its not gender based , its just human behaviour that has been going on since thousands of years.
It is so dumb to single out “Indian men” here.Hook-up culture may sound Western, but even in the West you will find many thinkers and philosophers who speak deeply about emotions, commitment and the true meaning of love. And have you seen hook up cultures after marriage in western ?If you are unable to feel emotions at all , the problem lies within you …. not in others , isn’t it?
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Just another troll…
This comment section shows it’s clearly not ready for a mature, logical discussion on the topic you’ve written about!