Why does everyone consider 30 yrs as a expiry date
As you assumed I am above 30 and unmarried .31 to be precise.
I have seen this issue being faced by my sister but never thought that this is so brutal.
My sister was 34 when she got married. She is a pyscharist working in a govt medical college but still considered as a failure till she got married by my relatives and most of the people in my parents generation.
She got married to a really nice person and they are happily enjoying their lives.
What i noticed was nobody cares about person acheivements but consider him or her as a failure if he or she is not married before 30. They assume that something is wrong in them if they are not married.
Ideally, people can say that why you are bothered about others opinion. But i can say that i faced the same from my generation as well.
I dont know who came with the bar of 30 years but its disgusting
30 -1 =29 ----> ok 30+1 = 31 ----> not ok
I never knew that it is so horrible to be after 30 and not get married.
I try max to avoid such people but again somewhere i am getting pressurised.
Even in grapevines itself, i have seen comments like prime age is over.
I still dont get it why people or the society tries to put pressure by keeping timelines for each and everything.
For some, it takes time to settle up career and other personal things before getting married.
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I have met many girls during my arranged marriage process and they put a filter for somewhere between 25-28 , not even 30 .
Very few girls were like they needed older people like 28+ .
Most People who ask for 30+ are when they themselves are 27-28 years old . I generally don't recommend it because they have a lot of history. Except if they're doing a PHD or something in the medical field.
Currently I'm 28 and I'm happily married 😌
I didnt get the logic of saying that people of 27-28 years have lots of history. Does people below 25 wont have history. Or is it like between 25-28, they create histories.😅
I come from a college which parties a lot and I have a lot of girls as friends. It's from them and my observations.
Well it's not. Many say 30s are the best year to date and find your partner.
But have you ever spoken to someone in their early 20s or god forbid late teens, and told them how old you were?
Anything over 25, and they make it sound like you're ready to roll over into your grave.
Copying from ChatGPT. Hope this is an unbiased view.
Biologically, the “best” age for marriage depends on factors like physical health, fertility, and emotional maturity.
For Women: • Fertility Peak: Women’s fertility is highest in their early 20s and starts to decline more noticeably after 30, with a sharper drop after 35. • Health Considerations: Pregnancy risks (such as complications and genetic issues) are lower in the early to mid-20s. • Brain Development: The brain, particularly the prefrontal cortex (responsible for decision-making and emotional regulation), fully matures around age 25.
For Men: • Fertility Considerations: While men remain fertile longer than women, sperm quality declines with age, increasing risks of genetic mutations after 35–40. • Health & Longevity: Marrying before 30 is often associated with better mental and physical health outcomes. • Brain Development: Like women, men’s brains fully mature around 25, improving their ability to handle relationships and responsibilities.
Biological Ideal Age for Marriage: • For women: Biologically, the early to mid-20s (around 22–28) is optimal for fertility and pregnancy health. • For men: Mid-to-late 20s (around 25–30) balances maturity, fertility, and long-term health.
Of course, marriage isn’t just about biology—factors like emotional readiness, financial stability, and personal goals are equally important. Would you like a breakdown of social and psychological aspects too?
What if someone doesn't want kids then still the same age criteria?
Stop living among fools. The society is facade. Fuck everyone…do whatever you feel like doing. Your life, your rules.
The previous generation got married before 30. I see now it's going 30+ (including myself). So it's just a preference/difference in mindset. Don't get into that societal pressure. Marry when you're ready:)
Plenty of 30+ aged bachelors these days around. I think it is hardly a rarity. It is just some stupids who go around speaking whatever
Idk but that's the norm 😂