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Why do people leave me?

Its been 23 years on this planet but I dont feel connected to anyone on a granular level. I feel bottled up with emotions. Everyone drifts apart from me. I am not saying that people consider me as an anti-social freak or something, all I am saying is that people treat me as their last option. I have dozens of people who greet me everyday but no one to actually "talk to".

Ps: I know this doesnt pertain to TCS , but TCS has the most helpful and sane community on Grapevine. Btw I am from TCS Garima Park SEZ.

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GigglyDonut
GigglyDonut
TCS15mo

Hey

I can see that you're going through a tough time. But just think, you came across many other obstacles too, right? You'll get through this also.

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Wish you all the happiness and love. 🫂

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

@happy_malayaali thats exactly what I needed to hear.

Unlike few others in this comment section who treat such issues with an insensitive outlook, I really felt happy when you understood my issue.

GigglyDonut
GigglyDonut
TCS15mo

Happy to help

SqueakyMuffin
SqueakyMuffin
TCS15mo

Ok understood. Now you can resume your work.

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

If you cant help, dont bother ! You dont own this channel.

SqueakyMuffin
SqueakyMuffin
TCS15mo

Gen zeeeeee

ZippySushi
ZippySushi
TCS15mo

May be you should stop being an A**Hat and do your work.

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

Excuse me? Care to explainm

SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

@AdeptDiving6 the way you responded without putting yourself in the other person's shoes just shows how big of a jerk you are. If you cant help someone, its better to ignore the question rather than coming up with an irrelevant and humiliating response. This says alot about your upbringing and maturity.

I hope you never go through what I have been through, but if you ever do, I hope people dont treat you the way you treat others.

Lets engage in more meaningful conversations and make this app less toxic. We already have enough toxicity in our lives we dont need people like you to augment that.

FuzzyCupcake
FuzzyCupcake
TCS15mo

@StanleyHudson I'm sorry to say this but don't respond to everyone and everything. Just keep your mind relaxed and everything will settle down.

Even i feel the same way that your going through right now in the past then i started Sharing everything with my parents and after that i felt little better. Trust me our parents is the best listeners and also they come up with best ideas to tackle any situation that your going through.

Please excuse me if i said anything wrong.

GroovyRaccoon
GroovyRaccoon
TCS15mo

I am not a very social person as well but would share something. As I understand there are people who know that u exist as they greet u so that's a good sign. Building relationships takes time so try building conversations beyond greetings. you should be able to understand where u can invest more time. Once you start conversation it automatically clicks and u would have friends to share stuff slowly.dont expect people to open very fast but it will happen gradually. Relationships depends on many things so give time for it to build till u open up as well. I can relate this things in initial days of my new jobs I use to feel the same but now the same people are very close friends.

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