Why are girl's side family asking for a own house
I'm 29M, living with family. We have been looking for matches for the past few months and one of the first questions that the girl's side family asks if we have our own house. I understand the perspective of financial security but what if the family faces a potential financial situation where the own house has to be sold and move to rental. Further, it makes no sense to me from a financial perspective to take a huge home loan Emi exceeding 1cr considering the interest rates. I understand the thought process from where the girl's side is coming from but I believe they place a huge amount of importance to this while taking a decision which makes the entire process a little more difficult.
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Coz majority of them aren't interested in building something from scratch nor wanna put the effort with you. They require everything ready made. Be it lifes8, own house, own car, foreign trips. This was my personal experience anyway.
Are you married? If yes, how did you figure out the right girl for you
Bro, if you don’t own a house at the time of looking. For a bride, please be very careful if you marry someone who is well settled or upper class than you, they’ll dominate you like anything after all those honey moon period. I have been through personally, been called as poor as well, remember to make money and have things for yourself and your parents, then go with marriage.
However buying a house in your 20s is a really tough ordeal especially today with rampant layoffs. How to navigate all this? If you keep waiting you'll reach late 30s.
Maximizing the upside in the event the marriage doesn't work out. Judges and lawyers salivate over a matrimonial home that the husband owns because it just amplifies the leverage the wife's lawyer can pull to get whatever terms they want.
Either that or the bride's father is uncomfortable with the fact that his daughter will be receiving back shots in a rental home.
House on emi is not yours, it's the banks , legally speaking
They want assurance that even if your company kicks you out, their daughter will not land in the street! If men also start thinking like this then no one would get married based on the qualities called Hope, Trust, Faith.
Bro tell them you are into real assets and not liabilities throw rich dad poor dad at their face. By Robert kiyosaki