GroovyUnicorn
GroovyUnicorn

Where to find a partner for marriage?

Hello!

I am 26y old currently living in Bengaluru, working in startups, fair compensation. I am looking to find a partner for the intention of marrying in around or less than 2 years of time. Have used Bumble and Hinge a lot, went to like 30+ dates in past 2 years, dated few girls but nothing serious came out of it - I think it’s the platform’s problem (anyways, there can be a separate debate for this)

There are old platforms like Shaadi.com, jeevansathi and new platform like betterhalf. I am not very sure on how to go about it?

Can anyone guide me on this???

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BouncyJellybean
BouncyJellybean

If you make good money then prefer to go for arrange marriage within your family circle. If you meet anyone on apps, do make sure to get exceptional due diligence done otherwise you’d have to suffer in the long run. Also, the process is long, brace up.

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

if a man made big money, he would be hunted in the marriage market. Money/ prospect of big money sells like crazy.

BouncyJellybean
BouncyJellybean

and then the girls would be very money minded who’d divide his CTC/12 and expect 2-4 international vacations every year 😇

SqueakyBurrito
SqueakyBurrito

Whichever app you decide... don't go with betterhalf .... this app is just time killer and money waste...

SleepyTaco
SleepyTaco

It’s nothing to do with the platform itself but finding the right person, which can happen either on an app or through workplace or though mutual friends. I met my wife through Hinge

WigglyWalrus
WigglyWalrus

Ask your relatives,aunties and unkills to vet you for marriage, no app can compare to their vampiric energy to get an eligible candidate settled in marriage.

FluffyNugget
FluffyNugget
Plivo11mo

Wtf 30+ dates. Must’ve spent like 50k₹+. How much do u earn bro? And for marriage stick with family friends or old platforms u mentioned

SqueakyNugget
SqueakyNugget

I am curious too

ZoomyPenguin
ZoomyPenguin

Pursue a social hobby. You’ll find good connections.

BouncyNugget
BouncyNugget

Any app is a dating app if you're brave enough

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

6 months is the threshold time frame to correct one's expectations. If in 6 months the member of targeted groups doesn't respond, one need to lower the expectations ASAP.

This is for both men and women.

SnoozyNoodle
SnoozyNoodle

No particular way brother. Unfortunately you need to try in all the platforms:)

SqueakyMuffin
SqueakyMuffin
Zomato11mo

These platforms are very similar. You'll swipe on profiles just the way you do on tinder or bumble.

The main difference is that they'll ask a lot more questions upfront while signing up, and things like weight, in hand, and expected salary becomes a part of the prospective's card

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