Those in relationships or recently came into it please comment:
It has become frustrating to find the right girl for a serious relationship. Apparently no girl is mentally single. Either they are stuck with their ex or they have their own leaderboard subconsciously - where your rankings keep changing.
Literally no girl In my circle and extended circle is single.
Big thumbs down 👎 to Hinge and dating apps. H*eflation is touching the roof on these apps. I checked with my female friends and some of the matches - on an average every girl gets 100 likes in a day.
Yes you will get a right person on it but it is so time consuming. And it plays with your brain - keeps you low in investment and you keep looking out for better opportunities.
And yes I’ve a good career, focused enough on myself.
Please don’t suggest gym, pubs, travel - they are 1 in a million cases.
The idea has always been extremely simple. You need to meet someone irl and then you meet them online.
Cultivate hobbies that are generally more social. It has worked since time immemorial.
Like, people meet partners in school and college. Why? Because they get to spend time building shared memories with people irl.
Online might sort out your top of the funnel but it has always been about optimizing for the conversion.
So, one piece of advice. Have a life outside of work where you pursue social hobbies. You will meet people, befriend them and finally find someone.
So till then, take care. It is not the complicated, duh. Dumber men than you have prevailed. So, you have it easy champ. Go have fun and make some memories, king.
Keep your head up. Your crown is falling, king. 👑
Sounds like a Prom day speech
@salt Exactly! Colleges, schools and even offices in some cases give you a proper community vibes and a proper setup. Even if you're 3/10 guy lookwise, but good at heart you shall prevail!
But yeah, we are way past school and college.
However, in my case, I've involved myself into such hobbies. Swimming, sports, Book reading.
I do meet girls with a "single" tag but then I don't find them "mentally single" - That's a huge red flag for me. And too much of a task to make her lose feelings for someone and develop feelings for me. And that's unethical for me.
I’ve got a similar problem but w.r.t guys lol, ‘cause everyone’s just looking to hook up (no judgements of course, you do you). I have just given up at this point and decided to let destiny run its course. Let things happen naturally, ‘cause when you force it, it’ll only hurt you more.
Yes I decided that 2 years ago to run things naturally. Didn’t work out 😂
Now before my parents start sending random photos I want to find the right one myself and get into a long term relationship and eventually marriage.
Same 😂😂 I am let destiny decide what it wants .
Bruce Wayne can't find a girl. What a world...
I can't believe that there is something called hoeflation. Why is there nothing called incelflation? Or IsckAndrewTate'sDckflation?
💀what is happening girls I know are searching for men for serious relationship, unko koi nhi milta all they get are men who wants casual .
@FrostyGig5 Intro krwa de bhai 😂 On a serious note, Girls are weirdly attracted to toxicity these days. So whoever they are pursuing, would want a casual relationship. Kyuki ache ladko ko toh friendzone kia hua hai (or saving for future)
💀 I am girl not bhai
i got my girl on hinge. Well, and I asked arrange marriage questions 😂. I feel its very rare to find a person on a dating app with a mindset of dating with the intention of wedding. Took hinge premium to filter out my type girl( no smoke, drink 😅). Hence, I irritated her so many questions. There were other talks too......We are deeply in love with each other. Hope we get married. :)
p.s. : installed dating apps with the intention of testing algos 😂 , main pat gaya and within a week got unhinged ♥️
maybe coz you go around using terms like hoeflation
I feel you man, and I'm on the same stage as that of you. Only difference is that I just don't have the energy to even rant about this 😂
Time for Grapevine Matrimony. @BiryaniEnthu, unleash your magic, buddy. All your research on us should start playing now. We gave you so much grapes.
Hey you remembered! I was thinking of it just yesterday, let's put something basic to get started
Maybe if you had a great personality then the girl would want to leave her side hoes for you.
Call Mom, Aunts to hook you up - get serious and settled down
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