What's your worst breakup story? It can't be worse than mine
This will sound like a movie script but bear with me.
So i love a girl. We were sure abkut each other and wanted to marry.
I am 27 yrs old, make 75LPA, an iitian, have a great family with no drama, 6 ft with decent physique. An OBC. I am in delhi NCR.
She is 28 yrs, she is SC, a nurse and make 10LPA. She is 5'4", dusky and average look but for me she is beautiful. She is from Rajasthan but working in jammu.
I was doing a 14 days water ski course. During the course she requested to meet me in as her family wanted to meet me. Because of diwali my schedule was tight, so i left the course on the 13th day and travelled 24 hrs via bus from Uttarakhand to delhi then to jammu.
In jammu i met her and her brother. Her brother offered me a drink and i accepted. He drank wayyy more than me. The next morning she said that i am rejected, i shouldn't have accepted the drink. It was a trap, i was heartbroken. I told her i will wait for her there, please come and i will fix it. I waited 5 hrs in the restaurant but she didn't come.
Then i went back to delhi via bus. Took me 12 hrs.
I reached delhi at 9 am. At 3pm i had a flight. I told this story to my roommate and i drank heavily. Then in the CAB i broke down while on a call to a friend. I cried all the way. Then in the lounge i again broke down and slept and missed my flight. I took my checkin bag, rescheduled the flight to next day and went back to delhi. I again cried that night.
Its been a week. She says she doesn't care about me a bit. She say that she will find someone better in arranged marriage.
My learning is, i will never trust another girl again. I ain't gonna marry. If my parents force me for marriage, i would rather die than tie a knot with any girl.
The soft hearted inside me has died. I will never feel love again, as i know it doesn't exist in this harsh world.
Girls really are heartless.
I left my water ski course which i loved. Will again do it next year. She was more important than me
Edit 1: she took a sip from my cocktail and laughed and said how are you drinking this, it tastes weird. While her brother was drinking whiskey
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it was a trap to reject you! she wants you to simp for her probably cancelling the Idea of giving you a dowry if that has been the case as you will beg for her to be part of your life she will not find someone better than you and is playing psychological games pls just find someone in that meantime and it will break her entirely or post an Instagram story with a group of girls she will keep on messaging you there and it’s a game of wait and watch till she comes to you!
I didn't ask any dowry. I had already told her that i will take no dowry.
And we will have a small weddit with 50-50 expenses.
It's fine if i was rejected.
But the problem is she called me that far and i did so much effort.
That is just pure insanity. I guess she was selfish and borderline narcissist.
You avoided a bullet, wanted to marry but won't even be open for this small thing, was probably behind the money.
Also, stop drinking fr regardless of this.
Yeah bro, i saved. She is borderline psycho.
And i drink like 10-15 times a year, so that's fine, but will reduce it
Good this happened with you. Read your earlier post as well. Cut the contact as soon as possible else if she doesn't get a better match she will again play some games. Trust me this is not even love. U deserve a lot better person. Person who loves u will never make u suffer like this. Also she is selfish, n wicked person who can mint from someone suffering. Stop drinking cuz of sadness, there will be plenty of good girls who will be interested in u.
Yeah true
She will come back in sometime with another game
Bro @CompleteMilitary55
You got tricked into a breakup. That piece of shit just wanted a non sense way to break up with you. That’s it, forget her and move on. I can feel your frustration but please move on.
Yup yup. Its been a month, now i have started to move on. Now all the red flags are clearly visible to me.
At the end she said she will find someone better than me in arranged marriage.
I am just curious to see what better she will find 🤣🤣🤣
As pathetic as the story is made, u also forgot there is no edit feature in gv. Truly pathetic.
This is true story brother. I actually posted this on reddit 25 days ago, and today finally i am starting to move on. So i just copy pasted that here. Below is the link.
I have also shared the bus tickets in one of the comments. This story is true bro
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskIndianMen/s/HHdOxNlysg
Had you revealed to her that you were a social drinker before? Why did she have to find out through her brother if she was already aware?
Obviously she was aware that i am a social drinker. It turns out she was 95% sure about rejecting me even before meeting her brother.
She just needed some good reason to do that, and for her this was a good reason. She said i didn't have any etiquette as i drank with her brother
What in the rage bait
Its not a rage bait bro. Below is the reddit post that i made 25 days ago
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskIndianMen/s/5rQ2o9svtF
I have also shared the bus tickets in one of the comments, if you don't believe me
Don't worry man take some time and think about it better go back to her. Once she makes up her mind for leaving if you beg and make her to be with you trust there would be no love.
Yeah bro, won't go back to her. In the end she said she will find someone better than me in arranged marriage.
I guess she doesn't know the arranged marriage market right now.
I am just waiting to see what better she is able to find
also how’s cb treating heard almost 90% of the code is vibe coded or is it wrong Brian tweeted it so was quite dumbfounded then
Its true bro.
I write 80% of code using cursor, then i just review it properly.
You have to write great prompts and directions to do this.
Also almost all of the unit tests are vibe coded.
Yes it introduce bug sometimes but those are mostly caught ny the dev during testing phase.
With proper testing, this is possible