What's your view on loyalty?
People say loyalty is the number one thing in a relationship — and sure, it should be there. But I don’t understand why society acts like it’s the only thing that matters. I’ve seen partners who are loyal, they won’t cheat, they won’t even look at anyone else… but they bring no peace, no happiness. They turn life into a battlefield. Even if you just appreciate another woman casually — not sexually, not emotionally — they create scenes, they suffocate you, they make your life hell.
And then there are people with messy pasts… maybe they had multiple relationships because they grew up without love, without emotional safety. Maybe they were just trying to find connection in the wrong places. But when they finally choose someone, they choose with understanding. They respect your feelings, they bring calm, they prioritize your parents, and they never treat you like property.
That made me realize something:
Loyalty alone isn’t enough. There are people who are loyal but toxic… And people with complicated pasts who love with more peace and maturity than anyone else.
Loyalty without kindness is just control. Kindness without loyalty is temporary. But someone who brings both loyalty and peace? That’s real love.
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It's not hard to be loyal and a good human being (not toxic). Idk how children are being brought up in this country. Oh wait, indians just give birth and don't care about parenting
Exactly parents also some reason and the environment that they have lived is also another reason
The most common understanding of love is to hold a relationship with another. We often forget that we can't give what we don't have.
It's only when we love and understand and respect ourselves, then we are capable of reflecting that to another person.
My suggestion is, ask yourself what is love? (It could be different for everyone) Once you are pleased with your definition, try to live by it.
Whilst you are living by your own definition of you, it will find you.
Don't go too far looking for what you already are.
There is no perfect package serves everything as a whole. You have to sacrifice one or the other thing in relationships
You are asking as if it is some trade and how to get the best outcome. When you have a strong character, personality and moral code / dhrma then it is a matter of yourself. Some things are non negotiable I will not go rogue because my partner does.
If you have an unwavering strong definition of yourself then you know what to do beyond doubts. I am not preaching about anything here. I am only saying have a strong definition of yourself. That can be modern or orthodox. You project yourself true to your definition. And finally walk the talk no matter what may come.