What will I get out of this relationship?
I came across a comment on someone else's relationship post. The comment in the title was said in the context of a girl "what a girl will get out of this relationship?" on a losely written post by a guy. But that being said... If I ask this question to myself...all I have thought of is • care and love • mutual respect • explore places together • celebrate small small events with both the families together • happy to handle 90% nakhra given 10% of mine willbe accepted • have kids • make and remake more money
Is there anything important that I've missed?
Either you have lived in a very nurturing happy family or dysfunctional one. Happy to see someone having those gold standards.
Umm.. none of them.. but its like I have developed some emotional sense by looking at my mother over a period of time..
I've seen her doing household chores, taking care of us and relatives..and receiving no to little appreciation and still keep doing things with a smile..
My father is little strict or rigid kind of... He also love us all.. but still I found that missing sense of appreciation that you know like only few words and actions can make a lot of difference.. and I could observe over the past a bit of hidden pain in that smile.. but she never spoke about that..
Im not saying my father is not good..but it seems he never even bothered about these things..
But given all this... I dont want to carry forward this... So I don't want to see pain-ish smile.. i want to see khushi-wali smile.. thats it!!!
Keep gf bf apart... We can't trust the things said in this video for aavain... But given current times it doesn't seem impossible as well..
https://youtu.be/BWu-VAuok3Y?si=L7qYVLd5hXTMTDNI
PS: Its not to promote anybody.
E PS: Even if it is.. its not gonna add millions of views.
