DerpyMuffin
DerpyMuffin
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What is your hot take on dating and finding a partner?

My hot take is, Cher was right, "my mom said to me, 'You know, sweetheart, one day you should settle down and marry a rich man,' and I said, 'Mom, I am a rich man.'"

I will personally send Rs. 500 to the highest liked comment.

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SqueakyNugget
SqueakyNugget
TCS7mo

Having kids is not the primary goal of women.

BouncyPretzel
BouncyPretzel

agreed. in-laws make life hell honestly

And it has never been even top 3 for us men.

SwirlyKoala
SwirlyKoala
EY7mo

There needs to be an age gap between the girl and the guy of atleast 3-5 years.

GoofyBurrito
GoofyBurrito

Either way works ? šŸ‘€

SnoozyWalrus
SnoozyWalrus

Looking for a PERFECT ONE is a myth, no one is perfect. Honesty, humbleness and humane should be the criteria. Find someone with these, if they stay with you, just settle and make a perfect relationship, don't run after the blueprints of mythical and fictional characters outta pop cultures.

FloatingPanda
FloatingPanda

Dating isn't harder now. It was always hard. It's always been

People these days are just Lazy.

BouncyPretzel
BouncyPretzel

Damn

SillyUnicorn
SillyUnicorn

Ouch!

SquishyPenguin
SquishyPenguin
Yubi7mo

"Soulmates are a myth, and dating is mostly about timing." Many people think there’s ā€œone perfect personā€ out there, but in reality, it’s more about who you meet at the right time. The romantic notion of a soulmate can make people stay in bad relationships or overlook great ones just because they don’t feel like ā€œthe one.ā€ Timing and effort matter way more than destiny.

JazzyNarwhal
JazzyNarwhal

Yeah.. timing.. and how random this whole world is :)))

ZestyUnicorn
ZestyUnicorn

Can't beat this.

TwirlyPotato
TwirlyPotato

Sleeping with someone is easier today than finding someone to love.

MagicalBagel
MagicalBagel

exactly

JazzyNarwhal
JazzyNarwhal

There's nothing like perfect partner, you create perfect partner..

JazzyNarwhal
JazzyNarwhal

As in it's not about finding a perfect one, rather creating one.. where the other person is ready to understands you, change themselves in a way that suits you.. you talking about what you like, why, etc etc.. and they listening and understanding you.

It's about who's ready and willing to be the perfect partner which you need.. and are you willing to be theirs?

BouncyPretzel
BouncyPretzel

So true man

SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon

the most successful relationships happen when both people have a strong sense of individuality and purpose outside of the relationship. People often make the mistake of thinking they need to merge with someone completely to be close.

ZestyUnicorn
ZestyUnicorn

So true

SillyMuffin
SillyMuffin
Cred7mo

An entire industry has been propped up around love. "Valentine's Day/Week" is pretty much a capitalist play at making sure that you spend money for frivolous reasons.

BouncyPretzel
BouncyPretzel

Archies was just like this.

DancingPretzel
DancingPretzel

Having a baby is different from being a Father/Mother.

PerkyPotato
PerkyPotato
Uber7mo

Actually. Having a baby wont fix your relationship

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