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What is the perfect age for marriage ? Is marrying at the age from 32-34 normal ?

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FluffyKoala
FluffyKoala
Stealth5mo

Everything is normal, whether you get married at 24, or 34, or 44, or 54, or 64.

Do it whenever you feel ready in your heart to get married. There is no perfect age or deadline for anything in life. You choose your own path in life, and don't feel pressured by other people's expectations or timelines.

Have a happy life. Good luck!

DizzyDonut
DizzyDonut
Google5mo

This is the exact crap one should not fall for. Try and marry early and have kids early. The biological clock will also leave a sucker punch in your face.

FluffyKoala
FluffyKoala
Stealth5mo

^ This is the exact crap one should not fall for.

Marry at any age you're ready to be. Don't let society pressurize you into marrying early or having kids. You are not obligated to have kids. Choose to live your life any way you want to - single, married, childless, or with children. Give birth to children, or don't, or adopt them, if you want children later in life.

Don't let other idiots tell you what is the correct way to live your life and what is not. You choose for yourself, and live your life whatever way you want. All choices are valid.

DizzyDonut
DizzyDonut
Google5mo

As someone who married at 36 having all woke thoughts on marriage and feminism etc.
please marry early and please have kids early so that they can have a friend as they mature and not some oldie on a wheelchair in their marriage. Worse regret most likely their grand parents (who also are invested in bringing them up with you) missing their weddings and major milestones in life.

Don’t fall for the woke shit that I did for!

SwirlyBanana
SwirlyBanana
Walmart5mo

Marrying when you want bhi woke ban gaya 😭

SillyRaccoon
SillyRaccoon
Wipro5mo

21-24. By the time you are 45 and up, your kids will be on grapevine comparing salaries.

GoofySushi
GoofySushi
7Eleven4mo

From indian context getting married before 30 is good. As a man you can marry 4-5 years younger. That’s pretty normal too.

WigglyWalrus
WigglyWalrus
Amazon5mo

Depends on your goals post marriage. Do you see yourself as a child free couple in the future? Or do you want kids? An answer to that alone changes the definition of ‘perfect age’. For eg me and my spouse got married in late 20s and had our kid in mid-el30s. I feel we got ample time to enjoy each others company before we had our kid and that sort of has set the tone for our milestones in life accordingly.
But honestly, the age where you are ready to marry mentally and both you and your spouse have reached emotional maturity is the perfect age.

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