PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal

What does true friendship means?

Do you believe in true friendship, or do you think it doesn’t exist? If it does, what do you expect from your true friends? And if you have true friends, to what extent are you willing to go for them? Do you trust them with everything, or is there always a thin line of insecurity hovering at the back of your mind?

I’ve been pondering over this question for quite some time now and have been getting mixed thoughts about it. Wanted to know others’ perspectives as well. Feel free to add whatever you think about friendship—beliefs, expectations, etc.

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GroovyBoba
GroovyBoba

Bruh, I don't even have true friendship with myself let alone with others. Somedays I'm like I need to get this done and my brain is like bitch please...

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus
CARS2414mo

+1

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal
Swiggy14mo

That is procrastination and is not related to friendship in anyways. 😏

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

I've been lucky enough to find true friends. They're mostly those who don't expect too much except showing up when you need them (also vice versa) or answering when you want to talk.

Can't share everything with everyone though, best to compartmentalize topics with the right set of people for them.

Some secrets are meant to be taken to the grave imo.

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal
Swiggy14mo

Omg this! 🥹🥹

Exactly what I feel! Can resonate to each and every word. Last line is so deep. Don’t know whether to feel good or bad. No matter how good the friendship is, you cannot reveal everything to one person.

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

Least of all your partner 😂

ZestyPretzel
ZestyPretzel
Swiggy14mo

Friends change after marriage. You can't trust them with everything. You can't even trust partner with everything. Fickle nature of relationships makes God important, the non judgemental, ever calm, best friend you can confide in anytime

PeppyNarwhal
PeppyNarwhal
Swiggy14mo

First line hits so hard. Most of my friends are not yet married and I know for sure some of them won’t be the same after marriage. 💯

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