What do you see in a boy in arrange marriage
My parents are desperately looking for guys and I don't think I'm ready yet, may be because of past relationships or whatever. I don't cook and above all I don't like cooking. I don't think I can adjust in joint family given the kind of work I do, takes up a lot of time and energy.
So, what do you look in a guy and kon hai ye log jinki love marriage hoti
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My sister recently got married, and she's working in tech as an SDE. We were looking for a groom for the last 3 years through arranged marriage.
She did not care much about the groom's income and assets. Her non negotiables were that groom should have good personality, well educated (with master's degree), tall (6 ft), not bald, with no drinking or smoking, and importantly, being friendly. She met like 30+ people and finally found her soul mate, who she liked and got married this year with some compromises
I have seen many guys complaining about girls having sky-high expectations in terms of salaries , but in her case, she was earning like 30% higher than the groom, with better looks yet she's the one who relocated post marriage.
Great, may I know the CTC of your sister, if you don't mind
Just curious, ladke se kya expectations hai ?
Compatible (understanding, supportive) ho bs kafi hai, and the most difficult thing to find, tbh
We might have different opinions on career, family etc but still being supportive irrespective of differences. I know will have to find a middle ground, same kind of understanding
Wow, much software engineering
If you are not able to forget ur past relationship experiences, don't marry. Not every guy will digest it
Fact is that there are lot more men than girls in marriage generation so u can take time
How is expecting a 6 feet height in a male different from expecting a fair skinned female? Why and how is this not hypocrisy?
Firstly, clear your head. I understand past experiences influence choices, but don't let them determine your future. Consider therapy if needed.
Regarding the groom for marriage, as Seema Aunty from Bombay suggests, if about 60% aligns with what you want, it's sufficient. You won't find everything, so identify negotiables and non-negotiables clearly. Stick to your non-negotiables; don't compromise. Be mindful while preparing this list.
Physical attraction matters, but it shouldn't be a deal-breaker. The rest is based on your choices and opinions. Remember, nobody is perfect, but everyone is uniquely perfect.
My cliche tips: Look for men, not boy.😎