@MustyWedge couple mostly discuss future plans/imp topics in early stage of relationship and lead to a decesion based on the importance. Is there a case where you went so far and it is a big confict now?
We’ve been dating for 4 years, super close to each other and both of us are at stage where everyone around us is getting married
@MustyWedge this is one of the most sensitive topic, u both must be having strong reasons to support your logic. Openly discuss with each other. One of the solution is to adopt kid/s if ur partner is ok with that. Honestly, ur partner deserves to know why you dont want it. if are there personal/bio reasons, you guys can try surrogacy.
This will be a tough one to tackle. First off, just have a real talk about how you’re both feeling. Having kids isn’t a bad thing at all – but it def comes with its own challenges 😅, like mentally, physically, and financially. Plus, it’s not like you can just UNDO that decision once it’s made 😬. You’re will be stuck with them until they can handle things on their own!
Maybe talk about other options too? Adoption, maybe? 🤔
Living with big emotional differences in what you both want could lead to resentment and unhappiness for both of you 💔
This isn’t an easy choice, but I think the key is mutual respect and understanding – that’s how you’ll figure out what’s best for both of you ✌️ Good luck and stay strong 💪💪
Thank you 🙏🏻
Understand the cause and try to convince subtly..
