What are my chances of dating?
Average tall (5'10), quite fair complexioned like really fair (creamy fair), looks wise below average (kinda small circular face with less aesthetics like facial features less pronounced), and earning well (>1.5lpm). Never approached any girl, and dating apps don't work for me never tried too much as well because girls are model type here on those apps and i don't get courage to swipe right to them.
Please tell if I'm okay in dating market or should not try. I never had female friends so asking in poll here, would give me some idea, thanks. Or you can share anything in comments too. I'm in ncr location wise.
You're too focussed on your appearance.
Yes it does matter to some extent but not as much as the internet will have you believe.
Most women in real life are quite nice and not so hyper focussed on looks. As long as you are hygienic and well groomed, your personality matters more.
Of course there are exceptions, but you probably don't wanna date those kinds of women anyway.
Basically my point is that your post makes it seem very transactional like you're trying to build a resume for yourself. Real life relationships are much more about things you can't measure as easily, like do you have misogynistic tendencies, how confident are you, how good are you at communicating and holding conversation, etc.
Also one huge mistake most guys make - don't get into this incel mindset of thinking that women owe you sex just because you were nice to them.
You need to be nice to women and treat them like human beings even if there is no expectation of getting physical.
And be clear with your intentions
You said you never approached a girl, then why suddenly you want to date? What is the basic driving factor? Is it the loneliness creeping in, peer pressure, need for a sexual & emotional partner? Or just want to try if that works out?
Try matrimonial sites, mention your salary you will attract a lot ot golddiggers. But unless you look good or muscular or good with the girls she won’t be fully yours.
Why don't you try arrange marriage? I saw lot of your post you want to date but I don't think you will be able to. There are lot of girls but if you are not able to find in cities then try in tier3 cities or town. you may have to reduce your expectations
Why do you think im not able to?
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