Was feeling very down today
I'm a 26 yo guy, never ever have had talking stages with a girl till date. On paper things look good I'm a software engineer graduated from an IIT comparable college when you tell someone what you are doing they will say praises and so on. I have been a loner since last 8-9 years now I moved out of my native state. Totally alone and all i see is people dating left and right. I find difficulty to talk to girls and even could not express myself very well. Im a good guy yes, obedient fellow, follows morals it does not mean I don't want to date, i look decent and on some days I think I look maybe good too, I'm a fit guy. I don't even know where people meet apart from dating apps, I have seen people holding hands and what not, it crushes my little heart. I did not got opportunities to have women around in school and college and now I tried going to group classes, there were bit of eye contacts even tried hi hellos but didn't went anywhere. Are all people meeting through dating apps in Bangalore or is there something that I'm unaware of.
Bro, same situation here.
I was exhausted of all these fcuked up dating apps, saying hi to random girl (and getting rejected).
I planned a solo trip to south asian countries, met a girl (finally got matches there). And had fun. No relationship.
Then When I had my first experience, I'm no longer sad or looking for girls all the time. That obsession went away, now I am still single and planning my next trip. And I'm happy.
If you make decent money, I can bet you! This will be the best therapy you need.
IIT GUY use your weapon money , if you look for fairy story then sit back and hold a beer , bursh up go to clubs bars gym meet people there , now time or old time money is proven to do everything for you,
These things work on dating apps, where i don't get matches. I'm not aware of how so many people are dating 😞, literally everywhere i see couples
