GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

Wanted to vent out

Never been in a relationship and I can't talk to girls because I can't strike random convos, even in office i don't have women in my immediate team. But i live in Delhi and here even people in 8th standard are in relationships, it tears me to core, and girls roam with uncles, uneducated illiterate people and what not. It seems like girls got no standard here with they theirselves are so good looking, when I travel back to home I'm a normal person tired after full day of work but then seeing couples all around feels so pathetic and tbh it's not a good feeling at all.

I always dress well, i have my own car, did grad from a tier 1, but im a very shy person, who doesn't talk to much people around, and also i never had girls in my immediate team till now. It feels hollow and to lonely at times, obviously those who date have had some common ground, but for me scenarios were never in favour so that I can open up gradually and express myself to any girl. Im not very expressive and don't open up too soon as well, on the top of it seeing all those couples rips apart my soul.

My school friends are not in India and 1-2 who are, are in blr, i just rot in my home on in free time. I have had this habit of not talking to random strangers due to which never talked casually with any girl, infamous corporate known for hookups, can u see irony which I'm facing. And being in Delhi, sucks that last drop of blood which my body holds. And let me tell u the couples are highly mismatched, like i think girls are literally mad here, but yea they are dating because they got to form connection due to a common ground which i don't have had yet.

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GigglyPickle
GigglyPickle
TCS14d

Can't believe you're in Delhi and have no gf man. Been to Delhi last December for a trip, girls are just so fcking fast over there. Just talk to them bro for sometime then they only initiate everything literally everything

WigglyNarwhal
WigglyNarwhal
KPMG14d

Get a life man, make a routine for yourself. Go join a sports club. Don't you dare ever regret not having a girlfriend. Even though you are, ask your parents to look for a girl for you. I was once so desperate to be in a relationship and got up with a girl from Mumbai. Now, I'm regretting my decision. Don't be that guy. You'll find yourself. Travel, experiment, get friends, connect with people, and volunteer. Hope you understand.

SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon

Bro do you use any automated tool to post these kinds of stuff ? Because there is no way someone would just keep posting the same stuff in different ways all the time.

GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

Another person from pops, pls refrain from commenting and it's mentioned as a vent post for a reason. If you don't like hit l, hate it, I will kindly suggest to not read it, if somebody is mentioning they are venting why are u cussing??, does it make any sense

GroovyBanana
GroovyBanana

Bhai Tu Itna desperate hein naa... Kissi multi seedhi Ladki ke chakkar Mein phas jayega...

GroovyMuffin
GroovyMuffin

Bhai kyu baawla hora hai, you’re posting this stuff everyday ! I suggest you make use of 6000 rs . On serious note - when you start expecting nothing, only then do wonders happen. Not desperation

GigglyTaco
GigglyTaco

Bro routine set karle, Gym regular jaa Dating events hone lage hai usme chale jaa Aur conversation skills especially dating ke liye yt channels wale kuch courses bhi dete hai try karle ek baar - inki shyad community bhi males laundo ki ek dusri ki help karoge toh sab badiya ho jaega bro. Try krle, rooting for you

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WigglyUnicorn
WigglyUnicorn

Think it's high time for you to accept things as they are... And move on 😌

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