TwirlyMochi
TwirlyMochi
8mo

Wanted to die....

Has anyone been in a family where parents used to fight very often and came across traumatic event. Im 24 M and i have been going through tough phase since childhood. I always wanted my parents to understand themselves and love them. But all those are just in my dreams. I often feel leaving a last note " Take care of each other" leave the earth. Hoping they might fulfil my last wish. I was born as a middle class and had money problems at the end of the month which has caused conflicts. But I have started earning good in 6 figures and still the issue persits. As a middle class i always throught money can solve problems, but here in my situation their qualities are causing problem. I have came across those situation in my friends relationship - in genZ terms if their vibe didn't match they break up and go. But I don't want my parents to divorce. I something feel like I am holding them together, but sometimes maybe my last note will help me live together.

8mo ago
ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

Been there, but suicide isn't the answer. Separation is. Just ask them to get a divorce or get one of them to live separately.

Trust me, it'll make a lot of difference to everyone's lives.

PrancingPenguin
PrancingPenguin

Best is if you can financially afford let them live in same society but in different flats. In earlier marriages in india at our parents time,there was no such thing as incompatibility due to social taboo but now that you have grown up slowly let them understand that they are not compatible and they have right to live life according to their choice and not bounded by unseen society pressure in this age.

PrancingNarwhal
PrancingNarwhal

Yes in that situation

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