Can't say about product team, but in my experience, have only logged in on weekends maybe 2-3 times in 1.5 years
Sometimes, the managers do create unnecessary urgency /pressure, specially during MBR time, but you can manage if you're good at your work. Sometimes you do get in a soup due to other stakeholders complacency/ negligence.
Swearing /Gali galoch/crass language etc. happens but no humiliation / personal attacks on me yet (Can't say about others)
Leaves were never an issue, always was allowed to take planned/emergency leaves without any repercussions